I'm a sorta shy person and I sorta run out of things to talk about. Any help??
2006-10-10 15:18:56 · 9 answers · asked by ihgirl_2005 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I find that when you first meet someone and you can't think of anything to talk about, it's always good to ask them questions about themself. What music do they like? What hobbies? Everyone likes to talk about themselves and that way you might hit on something that you both have in common and the conversation will start to flow.
2006-10-10 15:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The classic conversation.
Ask them about them. Follow up with something that you can connect too and ask questions. Laugh and smile a lot. That encourages them to talk more.
If there are 100 people in the room, I can tell you most of their names within a hour. Its amazing. Good luck.
2006-10-10 22:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the person questions about him/herself. Where did you go to school? What do you want to do with your life? Have you gone traveling? Where?
People in general love to talk about themselves.
Don't forget to share a few things about yourself, too--even if you are shy.
2006-10-10 22:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by MNL_1221 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with like talks on say the person's job, what she/he major in studies, her/his hobbies, her/his family/pets.
Meanwhile also start looking for some other things like if you see that she's carrying a gym bag, ask going to gym? start finding some common subject and focus on it once you have found that.
2006-10-10 22:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by crow_nanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handcuffs.
2006-10-10 22:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by roguetrader2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk about the latest happenings in hollywood or latest fashion in ure district..if it is a she..if it is a he,he will always start the topic..but if he did not,just talk about wad is his name,how u noe him...all that intro stuff..it will keep on..DO NOT talk like a reporter like eg. hello,wads ure name,ure age?ure family members? Just talk naturally
2006-10-10 22:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look in eyes .and smile. It far a strong effect like a novel.
2006-10-10 22:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Atila a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find common interests,listen to them,widen your horizons,
try new things/places/styles of music.good luck
2006-10-10 23:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rich B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask about the person you are talking to. where do you work? have any pets? do you travel? what car do you love? do you go to church? favortie food...
2006-10-10 22:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋