1)I caught him mastrbtng to porn a few X's.I believe if you fantasize being with someone else than it's a form of cheating.He swears he wouldn't cheat but I find it hard to believe.What hurts the most is he promised not to do it again & didn't keep his word.Now he's upset w/ me because I monitor what sites he goes on.If he kept his promise I wouldn't have to go to this extent & I would be able to trust him. 2)He is very distant towards me & never wants to spend time with me.When I get upset & ask questions, he gets angry & tells me to leave.He doesn't care if his son & I are in the street 3)He tells me its none of my business who he talks to, who's ## he has,& I have no right to ask questions 4)I'm being punished for his x's mistake.She was engaged to 2 men at once & left my man to get married w/out telling him. 5)We have a son & claims he loves me but won't say I love you and it hurts when I say it & get no response in return. 6)I treat him like gold and he makes me feel worthless.
2006-10-10 15:18:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Porn is still cheating,
virtual women is being with another woman.
Walk away, this scumbag isn't worthy of U.
2006-10-10 15:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k. girl you can do a he!! of a lot better then that. You didn't do anything wrong. I promise you that there is a better man out there for you because I learned that lesson the hard way you need to get out now while you are ahead. I was so scared that I let him abuse me and run my life but now I am with someone else and we are like totally in love. Get out now girl there is someone else out there for you. Much Love for You.
2006-10-10 22:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not worthless. It sound like he has a sex addiction problem.You don't deserve to be treated this way. His thinking is overgeneralized. Just because his ex did something doesn't mean you will too. I doubt if you can convice him of that.I 'd say make preparations to leave him when you know that you've had enough. good luck.
2006-10-10 22:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start loving yourself, you will leave!! You need to read what you just typed and see for yourself!! This guy is not appreciative or worthy of your loyalty and you need to leave him!! If he is still hung up over the last girl, then is the past is where he will stay, but you need to move on!!
2006-10-10 22:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by spideygurl38 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yo hes not for u, get a better man who would treat u like u want.
2006-10-10 22:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes cheating on u. i don't know why hes being such a dick but the whole porn thing was seriously a sign. + he wont say hes loves you!! i think you should REALLY watch him closely.
I HOPE THIS HELPS!!
2006-10-10 22:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to loose this John Mark Karr guy fast!!!!!!
2006-10-10 22:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by apple salad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋