have u dated a cancer? if so how was it or is it going?
2006-10-10 15:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I am a gemini and have been with a cancer for 8+ years. we have a son who is a cancer (born 1 day before his daddy!) We have our moments, but usually get along pretty well. No major problems...
2006-10-11 08:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by squeekmnstr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... ... it is not my Sun sign. But I am born on 23rd of December at 2315 hours in Stockholm Sweden and my Midheaven sign is 10th house of GEMINI.
They are not compatible as Water signs (Cancer)and Air signs(Gemini) are NOT compatible.
When Gemini and Cancer come together in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive, emotional Cancer has trouble communicating clearly, but clear communication is what defines Gemini. Gemini's chivalrous nature and silver tongue may encourage the Crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual; Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate the world, which the frenetic Twins hardly ever take time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore Cancer or doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as Cancer needs, trouble may ensue. These two Signs approach the world in such different manners that they must be able to understand and accept one another's differences. Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role of Cancer's knight in shining armor; Cancer returns that favor with their characteristic urge to protect the ones they love. Quality of home life is important to Cancer, and Gemini will be spoiled by their Cancer lover's hearty home cooking, soft bed and other creature comforts. Cancer is strongly intuitive and maintains an almost psychic connection with their loved ones, but can tend toward possessiveness and idealization of their Gemini partner. If Gemini just reassures Cancer that they're loved and cherished, all will go smoothly. Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Cancer tends to keep their emotions bottled up inside as they have trouble expressing themselves. They envy Geminis their gift of open, clear communication afforded by the influence of Mercury. Gemini, in turn, can benefit from Cancer's intuitive approach, so different from Gemini's bubbly, surface nature; Cancer can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of passing by the good things in their rush to get to the next new thing. Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. If these two Signs can work together they can be a great team; after all, the best decisions are made by incorporating the emotions and the intellect. The trouble for these two lies in learning to cooperate. They come from such opposite points of view that at times it can seem as if they simply have nothing in common. Deep, emotional Cancer can also sometimes dampen Gemini's airy enthusiasm, and light, fast-paced Gemini can leave Cancer feeling ruffled, even tattered. Balance can be achieved if they learn to talk openly with one another. Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Gemini is flexible, willing to go with the flow and follow another's lead; Cancer is an initiator and likes to provide that lead. Gemini may try to lead by being brave, even confrontational; for it to run smoothly between these two, they both need to learn when to back down and let the other lead the way. What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're allies, they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is always thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship.
Actually TRUE LOVE CAN GO THROUGH THICK AND THIN.
Best Wishes and Good Luck!
2006-10-11 05:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Echo Forest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a gemini...never dated a cancer...with a sagitarius and things are going great
2006-10-11 04:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I'm a gemini and I dated a cancer and he was my longest relationship but he was born on a cusp so he was like a perfect match because he was fun and also knew how to show his feelings because I don't so it was exactly what I wanted in a relationship. but my mother is a cancer and I cannot stand her because she always tries to tie me down and is way too strict
2006-10-10 22:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a gemmy!! never dated a cancer tho!!
Am with a scorpio now!! have been for 3yrs
2006-10-10 22:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep i'm gemini .. and no sorry i haven't
2006-10-10 23:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by TearDrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry no
2006-10-10 22:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋