I am a strong supporter of abstinence but I really would like to know, before I get married.
2006-10-10 15:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by joshooog 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
sex is so much better than masturbation. instead of having your hand all lubed and putting your penis in it, you have a nice, wet, warm, deep vagina to put your penis inside. the connection between the people having sex is unbelievably amazing! there is so much rapture, passion, heat, love...im still with my first (planning on getting married). each time we have sex, its so magnificent i cant even put it into words! hearing the pleasuring noises they make (moaning), feeling their mouth all over your body, the touching and holding of eachother. its a beautiful thing. :D
2006-10-10 15:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by ally 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I jerked off for about 2 years before I had sex and the first time I put it in, I only lasted about 2 seconds because the feeling is just so great. Now, my wife complains that I take too long, but that's another story.
I apologize in advance, but please allow me to voice something to you:
In theory, abstinence is a remarkable idea. However, I know plenty of people (as I'm embedded in the Christian community) that waited until marriage to have sex and they find that they are not very compatible with their partners in that area, and it causes tremendous stress on the relationship. I have found that it is good to know if things are going to work in the bedroom, because if they don't, it will creep it's ugly head out in other areas. Just my two cents worth.
2006-10-10 15:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both are totally different pleasures. Although one may look at it clinically and say that the end result is the same, I speak by experience when I say that orgasms from solo adventures and orgasms from intercourse feel massively different.
Both are great, both are satisfactory, and both could be so intense that you'd feel like you're having a heart attack. But it's just one of those things you can't explain; you have to experience it for yourself.
Too bad about your vow for abstinence... No sex before marriage may proove to be a "fatal" mistake too many people already have done... One need to know if their life partner is compatible or not.
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2006-10-11 01:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bodily, it incredibly is basically an analogous element.. an orgasm is an orgasm.. orgasms will surely be extra useful in the time of masturbation because you're in finished administration and you comprehend what you like. intercourse is with a companion, so what fairly makes it specific is love. in case you have become sexual with somebody you like, it fairly is the main fantastic emotional holiday you are able to take. i will no longer be able to completely fee intercourse because of the fact i haven't long previous all the way yet, and could no longer till i'm in love and able to do it. masturbating is astonishing. 10 out of 10 somewhat some the circumstances i do it.. it fairly relies upon on my temper and my hormones..
2016-12-13 06:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are into abstinence, are you allowed to masturbate? i ask this question because if you are really into abstinence it is useless to compare real sex with masturbation since you are not allowed to do both. not knowing how it feels to masturbate, how can you compare this with sex? go figure. cheers!
2006-10-10 16:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you wait until marriage, the first time won't be that great, but the second time will be!!! :)
Good enough you will try to do it five or ten times the first week.
2006-10-10 15:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are clean and healthy!masturbation is fine and ok.the real sex is too much for you cai\use it will drain you cause it needs more effort and energy.making baby needs not just the fluid from your body but a sort of current from you body!
2006-10-11 17:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
um...i don't know about this lady that answered before me talking about it baeing so great every time for her, but...you being a guy...you wil ALWAYS get bored with the woman you are with. always. it's human male nature to be with as many women as possible, so, even though the women will love it everytime with the same guy, it will eventually suck for you. so don't get married and it will be great. there's my answer.
2006-10-10 15:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by crb2g 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're not gonna get anyone preggers thats certain.
2006-10-10 18:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your hand never has a headache, or tired, or any other excuse.
However, nothing compares to having my husband hold me, nuzzle me, and please me.
2006-10-10 15:17:09 · answer #10 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋