ok i just had a baby almost three weeks ago and the whole time my baby father been dening him and now he's here he want me to bring him around him all the time one day me and the baby spent the weekend at his house and every thing was ok but check this out i use to hang out with my his cousin girl friend and she hangs with his ex girl friend so one day i was over my friend and she came to see the baby and brought this h** to see my baby so i think i should"ve just went off but it was'nt my house to do all that and the other day she brought the h** over to my house but i was gone and check this out she's pregnant why is she steady trying to see my baby so i went off on him and he told me just leave him alone i been going threw this **** since i been pregnant what to do
2006-10-10 15:11:19 · 31 answers · asked by toni m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound young...but in any case, you have a child to worry about now. Forget about the father of your child and what he's doing. You need to make sure that you are getting child support and thats it. You cant force him to see his child or force him to be a responsibile parent...thats not your job. I'm pretty sure you love him but he doesnt respect you so move on with your life and try to be the best mother you can be.
Always put your child first and dont put yourself in any situation that can, in the long run, harm you baby.
2006-10-10 15:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm telling you, your discourse was really hard to understand, the spelling, grammar and syntax are really bad. Are you stupid? It wasn't the wisest thing to get pregnant by a casual acquaintance. Maybe his woman just wanted to see what her baby would look like. At any rate, you need to just take care of your child and really get back into school so that you can do the best for the child you brought into the world. Ignore the bleeping sperm donor.
2006-10-10 22:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are planning on taking your baby away. I don't think you are stupid, just be careful because you never know if the girlfriend is crazy or not. You really should keep the baby with you while the baby is so young.
She might just be trying to make you mad....just tell your friends or relatives to not bring her around your baby anymore.
2006-10-10 22:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by lunarbuni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to tell you to leave him alone, then you should. You can raise your child by yourself. Be around people that love you, that way your child can grow up in a loving and healthy environment. Now that you have a child, your child comes first. Think about what's best for your baby. Best of luck
2006-10-10 22:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by marypaz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to have anything to do with this guy and his friends .. then just don't .. He can't force you to go over there .. and he can't force his way into your house. If the baby is his .. then you could file with the Court to get child support money from him too ! Take care of yourself and the baby .. forget about this jerk and the other women. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-10 22:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
File for child support, set up visitations, leave the drama. Raising a child is hard enough without all the mess involved. And trust me, it is drama brewing. And he is right in the middle. Look out for you and yours.
2006-10-10 22:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first ignore all those ***holes up there.
You should talk to both of them and do what is best for your baby. Congrats by the way.
2006-10-10 22:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Love Logan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from people who can pose a bad influence on you and your child. You did good in telling him to leave you alone.
2006-10-10 22:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by daisy322_98 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said it, you are stupid if you put up with that crap, just move on and concentrate on your life and giving your baby the best opportunities in life.
2006-10-10 22:14:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't stupid, but you do need to grow up!! Who cares that this chick wants to see your baby?? Take care of you and yours and don't worry about anyone else!! If he is actin a fool, then you need to leave him alone
2006-10-10 22:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by spideygurl38 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋