she really did not do anything to me,she is not a nerd,not a hottie,so i dont noe...she reallie gets me on my nerves...i dunnoe y..i think the way she talks to me..and the way she walks is like a fat girl walking on sticks...why do i hate her so much?
2006-10-10 14:54:54 · 27 answers · asked by ♣valentine melons♣ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you just think she's the kind of girl you would not get along with. I don't know????? Same thing with me. I hate some guy who kicks it with my friends and he just is flat out stupid. He gets on my nervous for no apparent reason and some of my friends know I hate him because sometimes I treat him all ****** up for no reason and I don't even notice I just told him something missed up. At the end I always have to apologize to him because he gets all butt hurt lol
Peace out!
2006-10-10 15:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by what_it_do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you don't really know her and haven't taken the time to make that step. You shouldn't judge her, which it sounds like you are by the way you talk about her walking. Maybe the way she walks is beyond her control. I'm going to give you a piece of advice that alot of people should hear. Some of the people you pick on or dislike now might turn out to be the greatest friends you could ever have and you're missing out on that opportunity by not giving them a chance. People change after high school, being that you don't have peers around to judge you based on who you decide to befriend.
2006-10-10 15:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just rub you the wrong way either because they are too much like you and you don't like what you see reflected in them or they are just so different from you that you can't relate to them. The fact of the matter is that girls in our society are raised to be very competitive and very judgmental of other girls, because for all the equal opportunity and feminist hype out there, women are still in the minority and paid less for top jobs than men with equal qualifications, etc. Read the book "Odd Girl Out" about girl bullying. It's fascinating.
2006-10-10 15:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a shame because she actually sounds nice and the only negative thing is the 'fat girl walking on sticks' thing. what if you found out she had a deformity of the spine or leg that made her walk that way would you think differently of her? and too remember everyone including you do and say things that irritate others, would you want ppl judging you on only one thing and this walking thing is just so petty and unimportant...maybe get to know her and quit focusing on the one thing that bothers you.
2006-10-10 14:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate, is such a strong word. Are you sure that it's hate and not something else? You might dispise someone or simply dislike someone, but that is not hate!
Review you true feelings and you may discover more about yourself and others! Like others have said, you may see something of yourself in this other person.
Peace,
The Ol' Sasquatch Ü
2006-10-10 15:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she probably has something in common with you and you are terribly afraid of being ostracized like she is. She's just a person who is trying to get by, just like you. So ease up on her. You may not remember being nice to her later on in life, but she'll remember it forever. Not enough nice people in the world. How about you be one?
2006-10-10 14:59:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a pretty strong way of looking at it.Some people just seem to get under your skin, try to find something about her that you do like, try sitting down with her and have a conversation and you may discover there is something about her that you like. Then whenever she does get under your skin, you can try to think of the thing you like about her.
2006-10-10 14:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by preshus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is called chemistry - there is chemistry for love and chemistry for hate... sometimes they even may switch places while people interact
2006-10-10 14:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by b.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like her because you want 2 be her. She's hot and you're not, I can tell it in the way your avatar dresses. Good luck on your hatry. BYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-10 15:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she said something wrong or shes going out with somebody you like or she is just ignoring
2006-10-10 15:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋