me and my husbund have been trying for a baby for over 2 years now has anyone got any advice out there thanks

Answer 1

I agree with the others, as hard as it can be you have to stop TRYING, and start getting on with life. When every thought and idea is about ttc you lose out on a lot of happy moments. Hopefully you've seen a specialist after 2 years, if not make the appointment and have both you and your hubby checked out. Alot of people swear by those fertility monitors, they are expensive but worth their weight in gold if they work. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!!

Answer 2

Kelly, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 3

Instead of "baby-making" you could try just relaxing and just have plain old fashioned sex. Forget about your "most fertile days" and "optimal positions" - make love to each other without "trying to conceive" - this is just added pressure.

My big sister and her husband took this approach after trying for 20 months and whammo! - By month 22 my sister was pregnant!

Answer 4

have you tried to quit tiring ,if you get a pap test your more likely to get pregnant because your all cleaned out.