What does it mean when a girl ......?

Question

When i took out my phone she held her hand out so i gave it to her, then she went through everything. SOooooo what does this MEan!!

Well, she is not my girlfriend but im wondering if she likes me or not.

She looked through all my pictures on the phone, i don't know if she looked through my call history but she looked in my address book. I got the feeling that she wanted to put her number in but she didnt so i was like put your number in and she did.
Then i called her and hung up so she would have my number.. but she didnt add me so i called her one day and she was like "Who is this" but later she sent me a messege that said sorry i didnt know it was you on the phone i added you now though. does that mean call herr?. I always want to text her or call her or something but when im with her she will get a text from someone and be like "omg that is so weird why would he ever text me" and i dont want her to say that if i ever sent her one...

well shes a really nice girl.. one time when i didnt have a ride home from work she saw me sitting on the side of the road and she stoped and was like "Do you need a ride home?!?!" and i was like "Do you want to????" and shes like "YEAHhhhhhh" even though she lives in the oppesite direction of me shes one of those "good" girls who have never smoked anything and stuff like that, I really can't see her trying to minipulate guys. She always laughs at everything too, not laughing at me to make fun of me, but laughing because she actually thinks what i do or say is funny. even when im not trying to be funny. Oohh i like her shes so cute!!

Answer 1

It means to me that she was arrogant enough to go somewhere she didn't belong. That was a good time . actually "The time"
to establish a "boundry", where she would know not to in the future without permission. Also it would have had a positive result in the way she see's you.I think you would have earned some respect on that move had you displayed in a confident, stern but nice way , that it is not ok to "violate" or intrude on private places, not limited to your phone but also to your wallet,your pants pockets, jacket pockets, your dresser drawers,
your answering machine at home or to answer your home phone . At some point down the road some of these liberty's may change, like answering a phone or going into your closet, but it is never OK to go into your cell phone or your wallet without you sending her there. First off if you guys were closer, it would be an insecure move on her part to feel the need.
But she may have been testing her limits with you, I have a pretty good hunch she feels like she has an upper hand or will be able to manipulate you as she pleases, although girls like to feel they have this power, the men who allow it are not the ones who have thier respect. When girls are still young and into thier 20's at least, these games and "tests" are part of her getting to know herself as a female and finding a comfortable place with it......a transformation at some point takes place then we turn into these awesome sexy secure "Mature : women" (hehehe) but although she may like you, she may like you better if you are able to define yourself clearly with some things. Just think if you do become an item and start dating,,,but still have other girls you "talk to" having her feel free to go into your phone can be awkward and potentially a disaster, since a jeolous flame will retrieve #'s and make inappropriate calls to your numbers.
I have a nephew that comes by alot to eat , use the phone borrow money etc. and on a few occasions I have had e-mails and phone calls from his girlfriends trying to find out who I was and even attempted to interrogate me so I know that it's not a good idea to let anybody feel that privledged. Also looking back I remember what I used to put guys through and usually had quite a few in my book, we didn't have cell phones back then and don't think we even had beepers commonly either.
while the friendship is still new make sure you are kind but sure of yourself when you establish your ground rules. It's more then ok not to give in to everything and wont make her like you less if you do.
I promise if she gets mad,(another power play) then she needs an awakening.

good luck
Debbie

Answer 2

Well i am not going to give u a long round about story but she could simply likes you and want to know and compare how many girl names you got in your phone to the ratio to boys. If she find that theres alot of girl name, she will think ur a player and wouldnt want to become another girl added to ur "contact list". Or to simply put it she could just be nosey but lets not write her off like that, Lets give her the benefit of the doubt!!!

Answer 3

Not even your girlfriend have right to go trough your call history. No one has that right.

I am not sure if even she is sure what she wants form you. And than it might be that she was playing game with you when she said that she didn't know who was calling her. It might be possible that she wants to know how do you feel about her.

Just send her sms and see how much time will she need to answer it.

Answer 4

She was probably seeing if you had a girlfriend, she may want to date you or start hanging out more. Text or call her sometimes!!!!!!!

Answer 5

I would say she wanted to see what you've been up to and with whom. Is this your girlfriend? If not, that was a pretty rude thing to do.

Answer 6

Steer clear, dude! If she's this way now marriage will be a living hell. I speak from experience.

Answer 7

when i go through someones phone its just to find out a bit more bout them

Answer 8

checking on you whether you have other girls call

Answer 9

are u guys dating yet?

Answer 10

hmm.. if she's ur gf, she thinks u're not being faithful