i've got a 14teen year old girl,and she's off the wall,she even gives my mother a hard time,she swears at us,

Question

she threating us,she stays out all night long,won't go to school,and
people are telling us she is doing all kinds of drugs,and sleeping
with all kinds of guys and some girls too.what can i do?where can
i send her?something needs to be done before she goes to far down hill.or even get killed from walking around the old port all
hours of the night.she says she don't have to listen to no adults,
that she's her own person and has her on mind and can do and say whatever she pleases.i need help to see what i should do with her,or put her so she can she how bad others have it.no matter what we say to her that we're going to try and get help etc,etc,she says i'll make up storys and all that and get you all in trouble so how youlike that..

we've done it all,counsler,etc,we've done from timeouts,taken small things away,no
time on both cells,grounding her she'd take off.we still look for her,she had problems at
her middle school,so they help me get her back to the one she wanted to be at,she would have to stay with my mother at times,but now this year my mom is having the same trouble with her.walkig out,not going etc,etc.we really need something new to do with her or someone different i
could tak to that could help me out,like tonight we told her,that we had to do something like spring harbor,etc,and she went off even more,we tell her all the time we love her and all that,and when we do family things we have to fight with her about coming,i don't want to be seen with you guys ,is her saying,my ten yrold,told
her she didn't like her when she like that,and you give me headache,she replyed by,oh,you cu--,want me knock your teeth down your throat..thats when she went in room,i was on computer,so,i wasnt
in herway either

Answer 1

send her to military school

Answer 2

If I was you I would tell her to go to the counsler or go to church alot. I used to be the same way but I changed. I decided not to say the things I said to everyone.
Her life must be pretty messed up. Maybe something happened to her family or something that made her this way. If she's been sleeping with people there's something wrong. I wish the best for her and you. Hope this helped!

Answer 3

you can't continue to let your child run over you. it will be hard, but i would contact juvenile court, i would cut of any monies to her, if she won't go to school she doesn't deserve any. i would advise her that if she stays out one more night, she doesn't live here anymore, and really put her out, don't open the door a couple of nights, she will care when her friends gets tired of taking care of her. don't look for her, let her know that she has to respect you, let her tell the lies all kids do, it's time you showed her some tuff love, that's the only way you might save her, then again she may already be too far gone. but you have to try. call juvenile with the police first..i had the same problems, but i nipped it in the bud with a few but kicking.

Answer 4

ok listen you kneed to get her but in line,she's your daugfhter ,she's not 18 yet you can still get this under control.get a consiler for her,tell her your doing this cause you love her,andDO NOT let her leave the house,if you need take off of work.if you love her you won't care if you get fired if you really love your daughter you'll do anything in your power to stop what-ever she's does but just don't make her go too school for a couple of days thats were she's getting her drugs,I gerunty it,but try to break her from drugs a good example for doing that is Walk the Line it kinda shows you how too break ppl from drugs but get her in control.

good luck,you can't do anything without God if you don't know who he is go too your nearist church or just e-mail me back may God bless you and your daughter

Answer 5

You should try to talk to her. See what's going on in her life. If that doesn't work think about going to a physcologist/therapist/whoever helps you with this kind of problem. And most important of all make sure she knows that you care about her.

Answer 6

child i had that problem to beat that ***!!!!!! first call the police report her as a runaway tell her if she can't abide by your rules get 2 stepping don't buy her nothing honey and get on yuor knees and pray GOD will handle her

Answer 7

GOES TO FAR??U R KIDDING RIGHT!!she has gone 2 far already!!!!!!i guess timeout hasn't work!!!!why did u let it get this far??
email me

Answer 8

Call in an exorcist from the catholic church.