he looked really mad at me today i don't even know why. he said he had to talk to me and was like it's over and when i tried to ask him what i did wrong he wouldn't listen he just kept on walking and ingored me the whole day . what should i do. i still love him.
2006-10-10 13:57:19 · 16 answers · asked by Babyblue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get over him... if you still love him, then you just have to resist temptation, and one day, you will fall out of love with him. It'll happen. Dont worry.
2006-10-10 13:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by Hotdivababe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not good love you have with him. it's some sort of twisted need. He was looking for a way out of the relationship for whatever reason and he doesn't want to take the blame. If he ever loved you, he would have been straight with you. What you should do is put that feeling you call "love" into perspective, learn your lessons, figure out what you think is necessary in a close relationship and what you think should absolutely not be allowed, and respect yourself enough to never settle for less again. Communication is necessary. Mutual respect for each other is necessary. Being looked down should not be allowed. Lies and NO communication should not be allowed either. It goes both ways, not just one way. It's not about whether or not you're good enough for him, it's about whether or not he's really good enough for you. It's your life. It's what you make of it.
2006-10-10 21:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will presume you are young. That being the case, let it go! You have a great many more years to find true love. What you believe to be love right now, may not be the case. I'm not saying that it is or isn't, but in most cases, it is not!
If he was not willing to talk, then presume he is too immature to begin with. Most guys are (yeah, I'm a guy), especially when they are young. They (we, when young) have no idea what is really going on in life, women often do. They grow up much faster!
Relax and take your time. You really needn't hurry!
Peace and well being!
Ol' Sasquatch Ã
2006-10-10 21:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go home have a good crying out then the time you finish crying you ask your self what are you crying about. he just gave you more time to spend with yourself and friends you ignore him back don't give him the time of day and then you keep yourself busy and then you move on you laugh with other guys and you flirt with other guys but don't think it's the end of the road because 9 times out of 10 he was probably cheating on you.
2006-10-10 21:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by layn22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really haven't done anything, then you'd better realize that the guy is playing you. they do this when they need time to fool around with other girls. you can wait if you want to, cause if he really cares for you he will be back. or you may be the only fool to wait on him. the other relationships won't last, cause he doesn't want a real relationship. when he's tired of this one he'll fall back on you till he finds another one.
2006-10-10 21:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by shaglemongirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to just get over it. This is life.
Many of us love or have loved someone that we can't be with.
If this guy isn't willing to share what went wrong then stop asking because he will just dislike you more. It isn't in his personality to talk to you about it. JUST let it go.
He won't be the last guy to break your heart.
2006-10-10 21:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there isn't much you can do. I'm sorry. Now would be a good time to pamper yourself, and call some good girlfriends to hang out. You don't need a guy who can't discuss what's bothering him. You deserve better.
2006-10-10 21:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by voyagernj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl he does not deserve your love especially if he can not give you an explanation. A real man would give you an answer. You will find someone that will love you back someday.
2006-10-10 21:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Amelia_Yvette 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start looking around for someone new! That should help you to get over him! Maybe a good cry would help you to-go ahead if you want to cry!
2006-10-10 21:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool down and eventually he'll give you his reasons. I would say move on, b/c you don't want to be with a guy that can't communicate with you and hides behind his pride.
2006-10-10 21:02:54 · answer #10 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋