My girlfriend came up to me like she always does for a hug. When I wasn't expecting it she kneed me right in the nuts. While I was on the ground she just stood their laughing. She started saying sorry but while still giggling. When i was finally able, I got up. She said "aww come here" in the sypathetic way girls do, and tried to grab my hand to help me up and I just slapped it away and left and said **** you. I didnt do anything to her
2006-10-10 13:39:10 · 23 answers · asked by 571234 6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well first of all she must be young... older woman understand that its really painful for men to be kneed... then on top of that she found it funny, i would have dumped her to, im surprized u didnt slap her...
2006-10-10 13:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know for certain it was not an accident, then you are right, A lot of people will laugh at the most inappropriate time like funerals, weddings, and yes when poor guys get hit where you did, This was as far from a laughing matter and at the very least she should apologies to you. She may have no idea how bad that hit was and don't even try, it is sort of laughing at a woman giving birth to a child. do it and you will never laugh again
2006-10-10 20:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing It is early in your relationship and she's being abusive... no matter how small it's still abuse and as time progresses, so will the abuse get worse. Even though you might have really liked this girl, The world is over populated that means you've got a lot of things to do with other girls that just want love and atention. Hope I helped a little Tabbicat2006
2006-10-10 20:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by tabbicat2006 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think dumping her may have been a pretty quick decision, but what you may want to do, is tell her that it is not a nice thing to do. You can further illustrate this point by leaving for a day or two to drive the message home. Some women are nuts.
2006-10-10 20:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She obviously didn't know how serious this with guys. Besides that what kind of person thinks such actions are funny? Only someone who is a little sick in the head. Dumb her and find a real sweetie.
2006-10-10 20:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you had the right to do what you did. She did something so childish and idiotic that she didn't deserve a smile and a hug afterwards.
I mean, I'm sure she was joking, but why did she do that? If you don't want to be with her anymore, I can understand why.
2006-10-10 20:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds very immature. She sounds as though she does not know how to love someone because she may be to young. Tell her that you do not like her inappropriate behavior. You did the right thing but you should of told her it was because of her hurting you.
2006-10-10 23:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did exactly the right thing. This girl has problems. She was mean and hurt you and then she tried to laugh and play it off like it was nothing. You did the right thing. DON'T LOOK BACK!!!
2006-10-10 20:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by LasVegasMomma 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats a really immature way to get attention. You did the right thing by dumping her. If you didn't, she would do that kind of thing again and again.
2006-10-10 20:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by JillA 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give her another chance. She didn't me to knee you in the nuts..... Girls are weird so they laugh over anything.....trust I'm a girl too. I laugh over stupid things too but then I regret it after.
Well Bye,
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2006-10-10 20:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋