my 2 friends have basically ignoring me. i dont get it!
i didnt do anything to them. in fact, 2day i didnt see them @ lunch, so wen i asked them where they were in class, they kept avoiding the question! its like they dont even want me to eat lunch with them! and one of the girls always whispers stuff into the other girl's ear, right in front of me. they dont really dont even bother telling me what they are talking about!
I really feel left out but im worried about telling them because we just got over an argument and i'd h8 to start another one!
help please =(
2006-10-10 13:38:17 · 14 answers · asked by jumanjifaceee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe you should make friends with some people who will treat you equally and not worry yourself anymore about the friends who are ignoring and avoiding you and being rude by telling secrets to each other in front of you. They don't seem like great friends. Don't bother yourself with starting an argument and getting yourself all worked up. It probably wont resolve anything anyway. Respect yourself more than that and don't settle for trying to be friends with people who don't treat you like a real friend. Just move on and see what happens.
2006-10-10 13:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really tricky to be in a group of 3. Always 1 will be left behind and the other 2 gets paired up.
In your case, I think its a mis-understanding between you and them. Just ask them why are they behaving like this. If you can't get an answer, don't argue or fell-up with them. Just search for new friends.
2006-10-10 20:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by cosmoboyin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are terrible. They are ganging up against you for fun. The best thing to do is ask them and hang out with some different girls until the 2 girls get over it-if they do. Good luck it is not easy in school.
2006-10-10 20:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by pryncess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel that if you tell them, they'll act like characters from tv and won't really care. Try starting conversations and talking to other people so if they never talk to you again you;ll have them as your friends. If you really didn't do anything and they just stopped talking to you, they're not your friends anymore.
2006-10-10 20:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agghh teenagers!!! Well hon...just talk to them. If they continue this nonsense than ignore them and make better friends! Make them jealous. That is probably why they are avoiding you in the first place. Jealousy is ugly at this age!
2006-10-10 20:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Amynesiac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either let them know how you feel...or just stay away from them and find new friends. Thats childish little games. Noone should have to deal with that crap. Ignore them like they arent even there.
2006-10-10 20:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lefty,
Just play it cool....some folks think its a way to get your goat or bother you to play odd man out...... Just keep on keepin on.....act like it doesn't bother you.....they will come around in a time ..... if they don't ...then they were never true friends and your better off minus the pretenders...
Just be your self ... try not to be too self conscious.
Good Luck.
2006-10-10 20:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since they are acting this way go ahead and make some new friends! They don't seem to be true friends anyway! Try to ignore them!
2006-10-10 20:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh..Please be careful.I have the same problem.I think I sometimes make to much out of thing's.You sound like me...overly-sentivive.Take a step back and relax.I have made many mistakes in my time,jumping to fast.Slow down,or you will be miserable just like ME.
2006-10-10 20:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop them and get new friends, they're being way too imature. i had friends like that and they're almost 18 now and still acting that way towards each other and me even though i don't associate with them anymore. don't worry about it you'll find new people who have more respect for you and others.
2006-10-10 20:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by dbobb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋