Me and my old boyfriend started off by hiding our relationship, after awhile i told him he needed to tell his mom about us. i noticed how hesitant he was, part of it is because he is mormon. As a mormon his parents dont let him date anyone who isnt mormon, and im not. What it has come down to is he decided not to tell his mom so i told him i couldnt be with him. What hurts me is that he didnt fight for us, he obviously didnt care about me enough to tell his mom. I'm asking for some advice on what he may be thinking right now, and what do you guys think?
thanks!
2006-10-10 13:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to say it, and I know its not what you want to hear, but his family and his faith are more important to him than you are. Its time to move on to someone who treats you with the respect and dignity that you deserve.
2006-10-10 13:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by JillA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of this isn't about you - it's about him, his relationship with his family, and his faith. He had to choose - and he did.
So time to accept that he chose, and really, no matter how great he may have been in other ways, don't you really want and deserve someone who is proud to be with you, in public, in front of his family? Please, don't dwell on what he's thinking - maybe he's missing you, but not enough to change his mind. Concentrate on what you're thinking, doing, enjoying. Let yourself remember what you liked about him - and look for those traits in someone who loves you enough to stand by you, in public.
What I'm thinking is that you deserve better. Good luck!
2006-10-10 13:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't understand the church and the pressure that they put upon him. If he keeps seeing you, he will lose his place in the highest spot in the highest heaven.
It hurts now to be sure, but he can't fight for you because he will be fighting salvation and the whole church. You need to find someone that will treat you with due respect and fair treatment. Go find that one.
2006-10-12 17:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Buzz s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he didn't tell his parents about you first. than you could say y he didn't fight for you'll .it seems like he didn't want to take you hom to meet the parents anyhow so you should move on you mit be playing #2 not #1 so move on an find a guy who will take you home to meet the parents.his parents mit let him date ,but he mit be telling you that so he can't take you there.
2006-10-10 13:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by jamie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guy was insecure about his religion and he preferer to check his soul first and you later, why i tell this, because i guess that in his house his family are the first, you should talk with him and later do conclusions
2006-10-10 14:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is unwilling to share the fact that he has you in his life, then why would you want him to share in your life? I know I want the person in my life to be proud of me and if he isn't than he isn't the person I want to be with. Move on and you will find someone that deserves to be with you.
2006-10-10 13:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know what he's thinking you should ask him.
2006-10-10 13:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by flexduty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋