One night when I wasn't here my room mate let her friend sleep in my bed, am I right to be compltely offended?

Question

Seriously what the hell was she thinking? "I thought you wouldn't mind.."
I've already had to talk to her about using my stuff without asking (i.e. dvds, food, etc.)

yeah...I prefer my bed to be INVITATION ONLY
if you know what I mean...

Answer 1

Yes, you have the right to be offended, but now she has no excuse to claim she doesn't know your boundaries. For the sake of harmony in the dorm, you better let this one pass.

Answer 2

i would not be offended i would get very very pissed.....whorn her if she messis w/ your stuff you will either kick her *** or better yet you will call the cops on her for stealing an then if that dont work then you need to move out an into anouther appartment or get anouther room mate

Answer 3

Where did you expect her to sleep, on the floor? The sheets can be washed. When you go to a hotel, just think about how many have been sleeping in bed, no difference.

Answer 4

I hope you can get a new room mate. You are right to be mad. I hope no one is having sex in your bed without you. Good luck.

Answer 5

That was completly wrong of her to assume that it would be ok. Try putting a lock on your door. Other than that I don't know what to say.

Answer 6

I wouldn't mind if someone slept in my bed if i wasn't there, as long as they didn't smell or have sex in it. However she should have called or text and asked you first, its common courtesy.

Answer 7

definitely... find a new roommate. sounds like this one is too inconsiderate and needs to grow up.

Answer 8

U shoudnt get mad its just a BED!!!!!!!! its not worth getting mad 4 dumb things!!!!!

Answer 9

maybe it is time to move

Answer 10

hell yes.I would be pissed off if i were u.