we already had broke up because he said he didnt want to be serious because of family issues but then again he said he's in love with me i just want him back
2006-10-10 13:16:23 · 14 answers · asked by Shiesty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depends on his age. If he's under 21, his brain is in his pants. If he isn't thrilled to be the father of YOUR baby, he doesn't love you. Stop sleeping with him - now would be a good time.
2006-10-10 13:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's scared because as you said, he has family issues and doesn't want to be even more pressured than he already is. If you're not pregnant, tell him that. Say the doctor said it was negative or something. If you do want him back, you would have to make him trust you again. He still loves you, and I bet he wants you back, too, but you need to understand that he has to relieve some pressure off of him before he can commit to a relationship. Help him with his problems and listen to him, see what you can do.
2006-10-10 20:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Justin L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy can be in love with someone and not be ready for a family, just like a woman can. It's very selfish for women to call men names for worrying if she is pregnant. maybe he's afraid you are trying to trap him. That may be why he broke up but he loves you so much that he doesn't want to leave. So if you go back, which I recommend, talk to him, get the pill or some other precautions, and enjoy each other until you both are ready. If you are against or can't take birth control then he needs to step up to the plate and be responsible enough to wear protection but use spermicide also, just in case.
2006-10-10 20:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he don't love you he was just useing you for a good time. you need to move on an find a guy who likes you for you .not when something goes wrong he just leave you in the cold.an give you a line that he don't want to be serious because of a family issuse please.get over him an move on .find someone who loves you for you not just a good time. find out what love is all about be4 you say you love someone,make sure that persons love you back ok i hope you find a reall boy who really likes you for you good luck.
2006-10-10 20:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by jamie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im happy to hear youre not pregnant, congrads. Now you can move on with your life and find someone who is more deserving of you. Dont waste your time with this boy, life is too short for playing games. Spend some time figuring out what type of boyfriend you want, i'm sure you're figure out he is not it.
2006-10-10 20:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to be serious, than leave him alone. Cause if you pressure him into having a relationship with you even if he does say he's in love with you, he'll end up hurting you emotionally. It is possible to love someone and not want to be tied down.
2006-10-10 20:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I dont really know but If he would love u He would of stayed w/u when u thought u were pregnant !!!! Family issues is an excuse!!!!! trust me!!!!!
2006-10-10 20:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Marlene O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like he is not serious if he doesn't want the responsibility of taking care of a family, but since I do not know him like you do I could be wrong. The real question is if you like him anymore after what he did. Follow your feelings, not his.
2006-10-10 20:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by bballgirl90 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's lame.
If he's ******* you then it's half his responsibility if you get pregnant. He has NO right to be angry.
I can tell you right now this guy's a jack ***. Run for the hills. He's just going to hurt you.
2006-10-12 14:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl he may just love the sex. if you go back please use some protection he doesnt want to be stuck with a baby in fact I think you will be the one stuck
2006-10-10 20:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by deemark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋