thats just wrong!
2006-10-10 12:52:08 · 24 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my ex as in ex boyfriend
2006-10-10 15:06:31 · update #1
I think EVERYONE has a special place in thier heart for thier ex. But if you cant change your number becuz of busniss, then I would suggest blocking his number. If that dosnt help, then just be honest with your ex, maybe then, he will get the big picture
2006-10-11 07:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact is a two way thing. If you REALLY want him out of your life change your mobile phone number, change your home number, or put an intercept on it, if he phones at work tell your boss and ask him to intervene. If he emails get a new e-address and give it only to family and friends.
I think perhaps this is a little game you are playing with yourself, the old lover that still carries a flame for you, you need to move on, make it clear to him you are married and NOT available and cut off all communications, the resolution to this problem is in YOUR hands.
2006-10-10 20:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feel really uncomfortable u have 2 tell him 2 quit contacting u. If u do want 2 keep in touch u have 2 set boundries in your friendship if dosn't accept then tell him u can't be friends. If that dosn't work go 4 a restrainning order.
2006-10-10 20:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to ask him why, all you need to do is tell him to back off.
We'll all always have spots for some of our exes because some have taught us valuable lessons in past relationships. But, as you said, you're married and faithful.
Explain to him that you're faithful and married, refusing to cheat, and don't want to speak to him at all. If he persists, tell your husband to curse him out.
2006-10-10 19:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because even though the marriage is over, the mess of emotional attachment he's feeling isn't over yet... that takes time.
He needs to realize there's something about you that he's always going to like/love, but that he's going to have to accept the fact that you've moved on (forward) with your life, in a different direction... & that you have no desire to move backward.
2006-10-10 20:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him know you can no longer communicate with him since you are now a married women
especilly since you have a special spot for him if anything happens it would be your fault b/c you had the chance to tell him to back off but you didnt! plz end it or you will be only making it harder on yourself : ( trust me on this one.
2006-10-10 20:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps contacting you because he thinks the door is still open. There is something that makes him think that you will cheat with him. You should tell him that he is your past and your husband is your future
2006-10-10 20:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your x keeps contacting you because he is obviously still interested in you. To get him to stop you need to stop the "dance". Stop talking to him, accepting phone calls, etc.....Just stop all communications. Don't have one of those one last convo's with him to let him know you will not be talking to him anymore either, just STOP. If you don't immediately stop, you more than likely like the attention.
2006-10-10 20:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still has feelings for you but you should immediately put an end to this since you are remarried. Tell the guy to hit the road and quit aggravating you.
2006-10-10 19:54:36 · answer #9 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking to him when he contacts you? If so, then that's why he keeps contacting you. Other than that, he is contacting you because he wants to. If you want it to stop, then tell him to stop calling you and change your phone number if you have to.
2006-10-10 20:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋