when you just met some girl and she keeps talkin and talking and that doesnt mean it is annoying or anything well yeah ok she just kept talkin and talking and i couldn't find anything to say after she said what she said and she's all like "why aren't you saying anything???" it got really annoying but im over it what the hell? if you cant find anything to say then you cant find anything to say right? it made me feel like i should talk like alot but thats not who i am im usually quiet but when im around people i actually like know then i can be loud and crazy but around people i dont really know then im kinda quiet this is normal right?
2006-10-10 12:51:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you talk like a valley girl... "like" that's so not hot !!
2006-10-10 12:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I personally am very quiet as well so I see where your coming from. Now I'm not pointing fingers or anything but are you sure you were actually listening to her? Because when a girl thinks that your not listening she gets very upset believe me I know. So I guess all I can tell you is, to listen harder. Or tell her your really quiet when you meet new people.
2006-10-10 12:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Shari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like she is an extrovert and you are an introvert...which is really a good match. When she gets annoying, gently tell her, you don't want to do all the listening, sometimes you just like quiet, and you're just a quiet person. If she doesn't adjust hang out with someone new. You can't change who you are.
2006-10-10 13:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "Creative Visualization" by Shakti Gawain. Very powerful techniques are given to solve all relationship problems. Also "The Magic of Believing" by Claude M Bristol.
2006-10-10 13:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by prad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do blather on when they are nervous, or if they just want attention. Sometimes the quiet ones are the ones with the most to really say
2006-10-10 13:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have different personality traits and being quiet can be totally normal but in the future when someone asks why you aren't saying anything just tell them that it sounds like they have it all covered and agree with what they are saying (only if you really do agree) but that you are just not a very talkitive person.
2006-10-10 13:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dusty P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, It's normal.
I'm usually quiet, too, I can't always find something to say to people, especially those I don't know well, and it annoys me when people ask me why I'm not saying anything, as well.
2006-10-10 12:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by fritzman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you choose your friends to hang out with, so if you cant seem to possibly think of any thing to say to her well choose someone else to hang out with; someone you might feel more comfortable chatting with, because i know i would probably go bazurk!!! if someone kept talking and never stopped.
i hope i solved your answer!
2006-10-10 13:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to tell you to keep your head up. You can take it iether way, either she loves you or sheis avoiding something! Maybe Love? You make that choice!!! Let me know!!!
2006-10-11 18:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very normal
2006-10-10 13:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your shy at first and once you get to know her you will feel more comfortable.
2006-10-10 12:54:34 · answer #11 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋