and not with his hand..... i don't mind trying out new thigs with him but i really didnt enjoy this and he says if i don't do it he'll leave me what should i do? I love him so much and i dont want to disappoint him.. help?
2006-10-10 12:46:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its very BIG
2006-10-10 12:47:17 · update #1
what do you mean he slapped you? with his thing? aww hell no if you cant respect you then let him kick rocks and get you a new man
2006-10-10 12:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He slapped you with his penis and you don't like it. I'm not going to tell you is disrespectful because truthfully it isn't. It's intimate. But here's the thing you don't like it and that's a problem. For him. Just like it he was into anal or blowjobs and you didn't like it. It's a problem for him and he'll have to decide if he wants to continue the relationship. Now most women will tell you he's an asshole if he leaves you because of it. These are the same women who will leave a man if one of their core needs weren't met. That's what this is for him a need. It's sexual but it's a need. You're not required to fill his need but know if you do not he will seek someone else to fill it. Someone will say that's not love. Of course it is...love has no condition. Love is love and he could love you while filling his needs else where. I hope this helps but more than likely this relationship is already over and you've moved on to the next one.
2015-12-19 06:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to do, but if you are not happy doing something that he wants you to do and he says that he will leave you. Let him go, there are more fish in the sea. I know this is a bad line but it is true. He seems to be very shallow and he also is telling me he doesn't love you. He is just fixated with sex. I say stand up to him and he might back down and accept the fact that you are no body's sex slave. There is someone out there that will love you and not give you ultimatums that make you uncomfortable.
2006-10-10 12:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Grady T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is only conditional love If he threatens to leave you over something you won't do for him. Try talking to him again if he feels the same way; tell him that you dont play games and want a real relationship. Not based on what you will or wont do.
Good luck!
2006-10-10 12:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I have been slapped before as well so I know it doesn't feel good. If you don't like it you should tell him. Its not fair of him to make you do things that you don't like. And he is willing to leave you over a slap in the face he is really dumb, and doesn't deserve you in the first place. But what I think you should do is just talk to him about it.
2006-10-10 12:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Shari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said you love him.
But he slapped you! Dump him. NOW!
He's only going to get worse, and you DO NOT deserve that.
There's a lot of them out there with BIG attributes. Don't settle for the one who slaps you... ever! You're A LOT MORE valuable than that.
I know you love him, but someone who threatens to leave you does NOT love you back! I'm very sorry.
Wake up!
...
2006-10-10 12:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Killash's Brain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes going to leave u because you dont feel comfortable doing that,,then hes a piece of s hit......You deserve to be treated with respect and not like some whore. Kick his *** to the curb and find someone that will treat you right. Hes degrading you by having u do things you dont want to. Hes a loser!!!
2006-10-10 12:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay I think that if this guy loves you as much as you love him, he would be able to see you discomfort and not dod it again and at least apologize for doing so but he treathens you with your relationship, in order for him to get what he wants. I say, you should leave him because he seems selfish and immature. This isn't what love is suppose to be like, if that's what you thought.
2006-10-10 12:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by changingcolors91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is no reason to stay in a bad relationship, one day you'll both be old and we will you have? Sounds like he wants to dominate you any way. You should tell him how you feel. It's guys out w/ big ones also that will probably treat you a lot better!
2006-10-10 12:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you can slap HIM. It sounds like he is selfish and no person needs that. He threaten to leave you because you do not want to feel pain. It sounds like he does not love you . Ask him if slapping is important or your love. Then make your decision
2006-10-10 12:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight: you love him but he is slapping you with his dick? You don't want to disappoint him though?! Hello! Tell him you don't like it and if he can't deal with it, leave. If he can't respect that, then he doesn't love you. What's to love about that?
2006-10-10 12:52:44 · answer #11 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋