its the main reason for divorces.
2006-10-10 12:42:23 · 27 answers · asked by jennifer r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do realize that both men and women cheat, right? Besides, not all men cheat. Only the self-centered ones cheat. They think that they have the right to do what ever they want in order to be happy. They don't care about anyone else's feelings. You need to find a different type of man. Stop looking for men in bars and clubs. Look for them in meetings of interest groups or hobby clubs.
2006-10-10 12:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most common answer to why spouses cheat is that something is wrong in the marriage and the affair is a bi-product of those problems, even when most other aspects of the relationship are working well. “The problem” is often one that the faithful spouse who would never think of cheating does not see or has elected to ignore for one reason or another. Other times, the marriage has changed and evolved in a way that leaves the cheating husband or cheating wife feeling left out or somehow empty. Those changes may include a shift in attitudes toward one another and the problems ensue. When a spouse feels that his or her needs are not being met, some turn to their work, others to drugs or alcohol and many to the arms of another man or woman. Although this appears to be the most common cause, there are others who engage in an affair or infidelity purely for the sex. They do not want their relationship to end, they simply seek the thrill that being with someone else brings. Either way, the pain, humiliation and betrayal are the same.
2006-10-10 21:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can and do cheat, too...ya know? Some, not all guys and/or women cheat for different reasons. Most do it because they're not happy with the person they've settled with. Some do it because the opportunity (that they just can't pass up) presents itself...which means that their mate probably is not "doing it" for them any more.
The correct question you should be trying to find the answer to is, "why did my guy cheat on me?"
2006-10-10 20:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They cheat for many different reasons. They could be just wanting another woman because of boredom in the bedroom. He could be missing something out of the marriage and the other woman gives it to him. It could be anything. I think it is wrong to cheat. I think a man should be up front with his wife and tell him what he wants from her not find it in another woman.
2006-10-11 00:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men do cheat...just like not all women cheat. The question I have always asked myself....is why do women cheat with a man the KNOW is married? Or why would a man cheat with someones wife?
2006-10-10 20:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest reason is b/c their wife or girlfriend isn't satisfying their needs, and in a lot of cases the wife/gf won't even try to address the problem. My GF won't put out anymore, but I'm not gonna cheat on her. I am going to end our relationship and then go find a woman who will meet my needs.....
2006-10-10 22:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by rwallace13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple answer....Because they think they can get away with it....Period. PS..the main reason for divorce in USA is financial problems, not cheating.
2006-10-10 20:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Raptor 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually finances are the main reason.
Spouses cheat because they suck and lack self respect.
2006-10-10 20:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by mrspatpat79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women cheat as well as guys only thing is when a guy does a woman spreads the news and a guy moves on
2006-10-10 19:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys think they see someone better than you but they don't it's stupid because when someone cheats then everything is going to turn out bad.
2006-10-10 19:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by sexygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋