So I have this friend, well you know.. the friend nobody likes... he's 33 yrs old, no family and a raging alcoholic. He's living with me for now, and has no job. I was wondering if anyways knows how I can find him a job with the circus or perhaps a traveling carnival.. actually any job that involves him traveling and only staing in stae for a month at a time, thatd be awesome! ty.. btw u may think this is funny but i really am serious!
2006-10-10 12:21:29 · 13 answers · asked by sick1withasmile 1 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Other - United States
No he wont get help for his problem, i let him sleep and shower at my house, he gets no food or mpney from me, i pretty much have him there to feed my cat and clean, the entire group of friends is sick of him, we've all tried to help but he wont get it.. cant just put him on the street, there is NO romantic relationship between us... and never will e, he really is a nice guy, but just a worthless useless drunk old ********.. i know im mean but **** he needs to go!
2006-10-10 12:31:19 · update #1
you do seam to have a problem, just tell him to get out, find him a boat going to China
2006-10-10 12:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur too nice, he is advantageous. You're nice. He's a leech. He takes advantage of you. He will test you to see how far you will go. soon he will start (if he hasnt already asked to borrow money) Why are you letting him live with you? Are you single. You can get better guys if you think you can. Get him one of those traveling jobs from the newspaper. they usually try to get girls and sell them for prostitiution overseas. they wouldn't do that to him they'd get him off your hands. sure he's sweet, and nice and listens, but he's not doing anything with his life. you have to tell him to go out and get a job and then kick him out if you cant be a ***** and thow him out yourself, it's you. I don't want you to end up the loser in all this, care about yourself enough to stand up and call the shots here. he is using you as much as i don't want to admit it, true friends will tell you if theres spinach in your teeth. there's spinach. get him out of your life, introduce him to someone like him. don't be his sugar mama you need your own sugar daddy. find another man to replace him and send this man on his way. Hit the road, Jack!
2006-10-10 19:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by stranger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a birth defect, like an extra finger or something...because if he is not a freak then he has better options.
..and as far a taking care of the animals even they need a sober handler to remember to feed and water them.
no offense but your friend needs help and the circus crowd is drug, alcohol, and whore infested. Wish better for yourself and him.
2006-10-10 19:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Rada S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is living off of you, you need to get him to AA or something first. he needs to put the beer or whatever it is he is drinking first. b/c he will get a job and lose it due to his drinking problems and then you will be back in this position many times over and over. Then get him something small and give him clues to move on and get out. This is going to be a slow and hopefully not too much of a hard time for you or him. Good luck!!!
2006-10-10 19:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by lambchop20002003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drop him off at rehab! You could be saving his liver! No one will hire a drunk anyway. If you really need him to go pack his stuff and take him to a shelter. He's the only one who will change his life if he wants to not a carnival. It is funny but don't do that.
2006-10-10 19:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Try to talk him into joining the military.
*Tell him he's got a week to get out, period. Stick to it.
*Let him online & see if he can find a love interest in virginia or something, buy him a one-way ticket to go see her.
*Peace Corps
*Check around to see if there's a group going down to Louisiana or Mississippi to help rebuild. Construction jobs are in high demand down there.
If he doesn't have a ton of DUIs:
*Truck driving school
*Rent-a-car places often hire people to drive their cars to another state.
*Check craigslist: See if someone needs drivers to follow their Uhaul somewhere else.
2006-10-10 19:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about the French Foreign Legion
2006-10-11 06:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by ccfromnj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not give him a job just to disapear..call a Seveth Day Adventist Pastor close to you to visit your friend... I also pray that God helps him also. This pastor to pray and share the word of God so that he may change and find direction/purpose to his life.. What your friend needs is HOPE.... May God Bless you and your friend. Feel free to contact me ....
2006-10-10 19:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring him to rehab. your to good of a friend to kick him out otherwise you would have done so already. if you want him to have a job he has to be sober so bring him there becasue he needs help to get his life back on track.
2006-10-10 19:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did I get on Jerry Springer?
2006-10-10 19:23:08 · answer #10 · answered by Notnadia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋