2006-10-10 12:15:58 · 20 answers · asked by claniqi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The kind of people that are being drawn to you by your willingness to buy them things are obviously not the kind of people who you want to try to be friends with. Friendship is about the intangible things -- the common interests, goals, etc., the loving bond you share as people. It's no different than family.
You can't buy friendship. All you seem to be buying are shallow, greedy people who may say they're your friends long enough to get something out of you. I recommend you socialize and find true friends.
Good luck.
2006-10-10 12:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they hate you, they're not your friends. Stop buying them stuff. Start treating them the way they're treating you and see if they like it.
You can find better friends. And, don't use gifts as a way to become someones friend because that will only cause them to use you and pretend to be your friend when really all they want is the stuff you're purchasing for them.
2006-10-10 19:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kinda answered your own question. Why should your friends like you just because you buy them stuff. HELLO, they're taking advantage of you. Stop buying them stuff, get a self-esteem, and find some new friends.
2006-10-10 19:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the problem you are buyin them things but they are really not yor friends. Money cannot but friendships so just be you have a good attitude and go out and find some true friends dont buy them
2006-10-10 19:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be mean, but they're not your friends. You need to go find friends who like you for you, even if you don't buy them anything. You need people who make you feel good about being you. Good luck!
2006-10-10 19:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa, That's me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money cant buy friendship! Try just being you! without the need to pass out gifts.
2006-10-10 19:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't buy friend ship you need to get out there and be your self and people will then get to know you and like you for who you are not what you can buy them that's a good start good luck
2006-10-10 22:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like these are not real friends. You cannot buy friends and shouldn't have to.
2006-10-10 19:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Julie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop buying things for your friends. If they are truly your friends they will like you for who you are. Make new friends!
2006-10-10 19:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean?Do you mean,you want to be their friends so you buy them stuff?Well,maby your being to nice.Or they think your weird or something.
2006-10-10 19:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋