Ladies, does looking and acting sexy require thought and hard work or does it come naturally?

Answer 1

100% naturally baby

Answer 2

The sort of look that most men consider "sexy" does not come naturally for anyone. Any woman who says otherwise is either lying or delusional. No one naturally has eyeliner and lip gloss on when she wakes up in the morning. I know that a lot of men say they don't like women wearing makeup, but that is because they haven't seen what most women look like without it. The women in Playboy wear so much makeup, have so much plastic surgery, and are so airbrushed in the photos, that if you saw one of those women in real life without makeup and before the surgery, you wouldn't recognize her. I've seen photos of Pamela Anderson without makeup, and she looked horribly ugly. I've seen photos of Angelina Jolie without makeup, and I promise you she is wearing at least under-eye concealer any time you see her in public. Jessica Simpson has a nice face, but her body is not "natural;" she has breast implants, and she obviously spends plenty of time working out.

Acting sexy is something totally different and can be natural or put on. A lot of women imitate what they've seen on TV or in pornos or something. Why do you think there's so much uniformity in what is considered sexy in our culture? It's because everyone is exposed to the same media that teaches them what is sexy. Teenaged girls do think about what looks and behaviors they need to imitate in order to be attractive to boys, but it's mostly a thing that they pick up unconsciously. I would not say that a porn star's job requires "thought." Hard work, time, and money; yes.

Answer 3

You need to ask the guys about this one. How many times have I been called a sexy devil? The only thing i can think of that caused the reaction was my confidence in my sense of humour and my age, that I dont have a problem with. I usually have a saucy/funny answer to almost everything! I can flirt as much as anyone and love doing it! But its all in the eyes! I've been told that my eyes say more than my mouth!!

Answer 4

It often comes naturally because i do catch men looking at me in odd ways sometimes - however these things can be worked on and it doesn't take to long for the desired effects to happen. At the end of the day, men are pretty easy!

Answer 5

That comes natural for me, no need to act it out.

Answer 6

I wish I knew, I generally just try and be myself, if a guy doesnt like that then thats his problem not mine. Sounds rude when you say it out loud but its true, why should I act in any way other than how i am

Answer 7

Sorry ladies, but looking or acting sexy does'nt turn genuine men on. Being all that you are is enough,.real men know real women and don't need an act. Be yourself and you can't lose. (unless you meet a self centered shallow as****e).

Answer 8

With some, naturally.

Back when I was 21, I was sitting in a car with curlers in my hair, and my gf said that some guy inside the laundrymat thought I was hot and wanted a date.

It goes to show that sometimes, you guys are in overdrive! hahahahha

Answer 9

for some it comes naturally, some have to work hard for it :)

Answer 10

a million. Take me by marvel, commencing my denims and supply me a bj appropriate instant 2. Blindfold me, tie me up and do even if she likes 3. marvel me in mattress donning no longer something yet her severe heel boots and a wicked smile 4. leap interior the bathe with me and use the cleansing soap me in, one place extra effective than others those 4 are astonishing. i could do them to my boyfriend.