My client has a problem. He is a very happily married man. Loves his wife so much.
One evening his female boss asked him to work late and later in her office made a move at him. He didn't know what to do, He was terrified. He doesn't fancy her at all but couldn't think of a way out without terribly embarrasing her and was worried about putting his job in an insecure position. so he just went with the flow. He claims he didn't have sex but they had loads of oral sex. After that she said she was sorry about it and it was out of order. Since then, there are no advances from his female boss. He is so guilty and wants to know if he should tell his wife what happened? Any advise is welcome
2006-10-10 12:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont tell her.........
2006-10-10 12:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Monic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he should tellhis wife the truth. Yes it will hurt her and she will be mad, but keeping it a secret will only make matter worst if it comes out later.
Explain to her that it was something that happened once and will never happen again. Try and seek counseling if you feel that the relationship may suffer a strain from this event. Take care and Good Luck!
2006-10-10 12:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves his wife he SHOULD NOT TELL HER and ANY advances from ANY other woman should be stopped at the very moment he realizes what she's doing. BE faithful forever!
P.S. Most companies have ethics policies regarding such behavior between employees and their superiors. They could both lose their jobs and your client could also loose his marriage.
OH the tangled webs we weave..........
2006-10-10 13:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, give me your phone number so we can arrange a time to meet so I can see what kind of man you really are and how well you can take a beating from a real man. Worthless bag of **** that you are. You are a coward, the whole world should know it.
2006-10-11 04:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by cdrfish60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If boss made him feel uncomfortable and sex was not consentual--then that's considered harrassment.
I would tell my wife and hire a lawyer to sue the woman.
2006-10-10 12:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just another one of your bogus questions. Don't fall for this one, guys. Oh, by the way, did I just read that oral sex isn't sex? Oral Vollyball isn't sex, that's the crap that justifies cheating. Get honest.
2006-10-10 12:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Raptor 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think he should tell his wife even though its going to hurt her. its going to be better if tellls her before she finds out another way. he needs to tell her how sorry he is.
2006-10-10 12:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by crazy_mom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should tell his wife what he did.
Even though it might mean that she wants to get a divorce with him, its better that way then living with all of that guilt in his life.
2006-10-10 12:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard call. If they can move past it then tell her- but if his wife can't or won't be able to forgive him then maybe he shouldn't. If it continues then yes but if it is a one time thing - then no.
2006-10-10 12:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You did not have sex with that woman.
Well, according to President Clinton you didn't.
2006-10-10 12:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT SAY A WORD.....unless ur the emotional type dealing with guilt and stuff.
2006-10-10 12:26:00 · answer #11 · answered by Tray Augustus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋