She doesent care but whenever my girlfriend says she doesent wanna tlak to me and would rather do her homework and wants to make me feel like crap i have a really bad breathing problem. My heart like slows down and aches. My head and throat feel sore. Whats wrong with me?
2006-10-10 11:48:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She wont even tell me she loves me...=' (
2006-10-10 11:48:57 · update #1
I talk to her all day!!!!!!!!!!
I say screw homework!!!!!!!!
No commitment my butt!
2006-10-10 11:51:53 · update #2
awwww
look if she dont like u so why u complete ur life with her
u must go and ask her if she like u or not
and u really get bored and hurted from her treating to u
or ask one of her friends to talk to her to make her treat u more better
2006-10-10 11:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is your emotions interfering with body functions. You are super sensitive. Your hurt feelings are causing physical symptoms. I am the same way so I know through experience. If you don't toughen up it will only get worse. I have even experienced heart palpitations diarrhea and depression. You can't control how your girl fiend acts. If she is gonna be insensitive than so be it. However you can control the way you react to her moods. Try not to take life so seriously. When she acts like that leave her alone. Hang with your friend and don't worry. When she is ready to talk to you she will. If she doesn't find another girl. One that is right for you. Smile.
2006-10-10 19:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by deedermarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really love her and you hurt deeply when you feel she doesn't care about you. You should tell her that you need more in your relationship than what she is giving. Ask her to spend an hour talking to you. If she doesn't want to, I think it is time to move on. Maybe your body is telling you it is time to move on.
Our bodies will react in those ways when we are stressed out like you are. You may feel bad and hurt right now. If you talk to her and tell her how you feel and she doesn't want to compromise and make the relationship stronger, you need to dump her and find someone else who is more compatible with you. A weight will be lifted off your shoulders that you don't know about at this moment. Sometimes we have to go through people like this to really appreciate the one he has for us. Big hug to you.
2006-10-10 18:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be tied down to one girl. You are only 14! Have fun! Sew your wild oats! Love at 14 definetly isn't worth it. You have the whole world to explore. There is so much to see in do to be depressed over someone who isn't worth your tears. Wait until you go to college to be in a serious relationship. Trust me! When I was your age I would get upset over these things. I totally regret it! I know it seems hard right now, but there are so many fish in the sea! You are a cute guy!
2006-10-10 19:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by CbopXB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are a great catch. She does not love you. You deserve, and can do better, hon. What you are feeling is anxiety. I have had it for twelve years, and when I get even a liitle upset it hits like a ton of bricks. Sometimes meds can make it worse, but it might be a good idea to see a doc. Move on sweety. There is someone who can love you in return. Good luck^__^
2006-10-10 18:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow Dreamer. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Josh, how old are you?
2nd just b/c your girlfriend has to do homework doesn't mean that she doesn't want to be with you. Unless, she says or does things on purpose to make you feel like crap-then dump her, it's not worth it!
3rd It sounds like you need to work on your self esteem!!
4th Just b/c she won't say I love you, doesn't mean that she doesn't. For some people they have to work up to that and it's not as easy for them.
2006-10-10 18:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel that she is ignoring you you feel that she should spend every second with you and you forget that there are priorities in life that must be taken care of yes that is normal as i used to feel the same way
homework takes alot of concentrtion and im sure she loves you and is not so much ignoring you as it is that maybe she wantsto get her homework finished so she can use that time afterwards to spend with you.
i hope i helped you a little bit.
2006-10-10 18:56:24 · answer #7 · answered by johannson52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. There's no true love when your under 17. Maybe when you 18, but there's a good chance when get to be in your 20's.
2006-10-10 18:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Nick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boo. Sounds like she's playing power games. Girls will do that.
You're having a mini panick attack. Just remember that two can play at that game!
Maybe you should let her do her homework, though. If she studies hard, she can become a doctor and be your sugar momma.
2006-10-10 18:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by wait_for_it 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are madly in love and she doesn't care as much about you as you do her. Sorry to break the bad news. Find someone worthy of that deep love you have!
2006-10-10 18:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋