i just got off the phone phone with a friend and she told me that my BROTHER's girlfriend was kissen all ova this other dude at the skating sunday. my brother and i couldn't make it so we din't not see anything.
do you think i should tell my brother??
if so how???
2006-10-10 11:38:26 · 36 answers · asked by zsimone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i just told my best friend and he was very shocked. and said i kinda need to tell him. but i don't wanna be a person to start mess.
2006-10-10 11:50:18 · update #1
You should definitely tell your brother. He has a right to know his girlfriend was kissing someone else. Just tell him hey so and so told me she saw (girlfriends name) kissing on some guy Sunday
2006-10-10 11:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely tell him! He needs to know what kind of girlfriend he has. If she can't be trusted when he's not around, then he needs to know now, before things go any farther. Just be honest and straightforward with him. He might not believe you at first, but give him a little time and he'll come to see that you are looking out for his best interests! Good luck and God Bless!
2006-10-10 11:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if they're 100% sure what they saw. I don't have a brother so I'm not sure what to do, sorry! Just stay calm and everything will turn out fine. Or maybe you should tell a parent and they can just tell your brother. :)
2006-10-10 11:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ricardo M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let your brother know! Let him know that you heard someone say that they saw your brother's girlfriend with another guy. Suggest to him that he ask his girlfriend if she's being totally honest with him. (or something to that effect) Then she has the chance to redeem herself. Should she choose to lie, (if what was said is true) then she really isn't...worthy? (wrong word, but once again, something to that effect) Make sure to stress that you are not 100% that what was said was true. Be supportive and honest, and things should be okay!
2006-10-10 11:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No confront her then your brother make sure that it was her. You don't want to break them up cause you friend might have seen her or someone that looks like her. Trust me, I been there and done that. I thought I saw my gf with another man, turned out to be someone else. Her fiancee broke off with her, and I regret it to this day.
2006-10-10 11:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you better tell him, your his sister! Tell him alone when noone is around and be sensitive about it because he may very well love the girl. Even if it might not be true, tell him so he can make his own decision on what he needs to do. Best wishes!
2006-10-10 11:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrapture1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's gossip.
Don't help spread gossip. It might be someone is trying to hurt either your brother or his galfriend. Best to trust that your brother knows his girlfriend and will figure it out for himself if she is not loyal. He's not stupid.
2006-10-10 11:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he finds out on his own, do you know how heart broken he would be! If you tell him he might know that its coming and hes going to find out some day!! don't tell him and don't keep it a secret either. You need to prove it to him. So then he won't be hurt so much!!!
2006-10-10 11:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him. I would get your friend on the phone too. I would have him ask his "girlfriend" about it, and if she denies it, bring the friend along & whoever else seen it. Good Luck
2006-10-10 11:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coruse you should, just take it a little slow. If your brother's like mine, e wouldn't believe you, so have witnesses like your friend! Also, speak to the girlfriend to see y she did it.
2006-10-10 11:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋