Where can I find beautiful women who are willing to date average-looking, average-waged guys?

Question

There is a new study that finds women are dating more for looks these days and less for money, which means, unfortunately, that the average-looking man will find it even harder to date attractive women. He can't even hope to date them by becoming a multi-millionaire! I, for one, am deeply concerned.

Answer 1

Although there are, of course, exceptions, it is generally believed that people of similar levels of attractiveness tend to be attracted to one another.

At the same time, there are very beautiful women who may be willing to date someone who is average-looking as long as he was someone she could admire in terms of his personality and/or integrity and/or morality, etc.

One problem for you, though, could be that you may be willing to overlook women with attractiveness of a level similar to yours (average-looking women who know how to make the most of their looks can be pretty attractive). The fact that you appear to be wanting to do this doesn't say much for your character - so you may not quite have the exceptional personality and character that would interest a knock-out-beautiful woman.

Something you may want to consider (or may not realize) is that often times women who are considered "knock-out beautiful" are seen that way not necessarily because they were born with unusually beautiful faces but because they are physically fit and have a good hair-stylist and good make-up on an otherwise "average-attractive" face. I'm not taking anything away from the fact that they manage to be seen as beautiful, but the other side of that is that any number of average-looking women could look far more beautiful with the right make-up, hair and maybe weight adjustment or figure-enhancing under things.

Maybe you need to consider getting a make-over and doing whatever it takes to get your body into great shape if it isn't.

Also, it takes a certain amount of time and money for a woman to have the personal trainer, the cook, the nanny, the expensive make-up, and the hair stylist often required to be extremely and amazingly beautiful. You may want to consider the money factor when factoring in your average wages into the imagined scenario.

You probably have reason to be "deeply concerned" - not because of your average looks or average wages, but because of the value you have placed on "beautiful" and also for your apparent belief that you can expect of someone else what you, yourself, are not.

Finally: I know you're question shouldn't be taken all that seriously; but as long as I've gone this far I'd like to add one thing; and that is that extremely beautiful women are humans. Whether or not their beauty is completely natural (and it usually isn't) or is a matter of know-how any beautiful woman worth dating wants you to date her because of who she is and not what she looks like. Extremely beautiful people have a whole bunch of superficial crap they have to deal with all the time; so the irony is that the one thing you might be able to offer a beautiful woman (wanting to date her because you have met her and like her for who she is) is the one thing you may not have.

Answer 2

Human nature and society program all of us to look for someone that is similar or better, in some way. You must become what you want in a woman; build on anything, such as height, hairstyle, voice and talents. No question: ugly rock stars snag models, because they can sing. Many things are beautiful , beyond physical attractiveness. When someone brushes past and you like her, smile and say Hi. You will get a lot of practice, become confident and ready to meet your girl. At least you will get some smiles and that is always encouraging. Yours is more a question of time rather than place. Be alert. You will get plenty of chances.

Answer 3

Dont be concerned dude, whats wrong with a girl who is not as beautiful but is lovely to you and a decent person and fun and great to hang out with and see things with and go places? Beauty is only skin deep but if you insist on finding someone beautiful make sure you know what you are letting yourself in for. And yep, for people that shallow to be obsessed with looks you had better have more money than the next guy or else you will be passed over - maybe think about that not so beautiful girl who as much more to offer longer term.....

Answer 4

I don't think most women are dating for only looks. a good looking guy with no job and no personality is not dating a whole bunch of 10s....if you are avg looking and avg. waged you better have a hell of a personality...if you are avg looking and avg waged don't reasonably expect to be dating 9 or 10s. Try picking up some 6 or 7 with a good personality........

Answer 5

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Answer 6

okay, coming from a womans perspective...you can have all the money in the world, but if you DONT give me special treatment/make me feel like I'm your whole world, then IT WILL GO NOWHERE. But if you are the average joe and make an effort to do special things or make me feel like I am the most important thing in your life then I will bend over backwards for you and think you are the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am married but to this day I still brag to my friends about the special things done for me by men(and my husband to...he musta done the best job cause we're married now!) i dated that made me feel like a millions bucks. those moments, are never forgotten by a woman.

Answer 7

for every study that says that there will be one that says the opposite. Fortunately the world is not only made up of shallow women there are a lot of women that are smart enough to look for a man with more to offer than a pretty face.

Answer 8

What's wrong with an average-looking girl? It's amazing to me that a guy can say "I'm average-looking... but I deserve a beautiful woman."

Answer 9

Since I'm an ugly sucker married to a beautiful woman, I don't have to worry about this anymore. Sorry, but I lucked out.

Answer 10

You won't find the woman you're looking for here in Los Angeles. The majority of the women out here are just looking for guys that look like Ryan Seacrest, make a ton of money and treat them like crap.