My girlfriend and I loved each other one day she wanted to break up I didnt want to but I had no other choice. We're still friend with benefit kissing hugging loving each other like girlfriend and boyfriend. One day she hanged with her god sister who related to her 7th grade crush. She fell for him again. Later on she liked her godsister brother but then none of them had the chance and she went out with a guy name Johnny who she met in 7th grade and saw him just about 2 weeks ago. I do want her to be happy but I also dont want to lose her. Im trying get over it but i cant i think of her daily. When i see her i pretend to smile to pretend everything find but inside i want to tare up and cry. It hurt me so much hearing about them together. I know people going to say MOVE ON, GET OVER IT, SHE DOESNT TREAT YOU GOOD all them BUT I cant get over her its been 3 month and i still want her back please dont even say TIME HEALS....because i really dont no what to do right now....AM IM IN LOVE?...
2006-10-10 11:10:48 · 6 answers · asked by lilxmizztasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no your whipped----now get up and take some control of your life--no girl is going to want to hang with you if your acting like a wimp
2006-10-10 11:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen buddy , I know you're in love with your heart not your mind , so mind talk wont be of a benefit for you ( MOVE on , GET OVER , and so ...you already know it anyway ), yes , it hurts, so much pain , and breaking your heart , but you must think that if she's with him , then she's with him not with you , which will mean it's a game for two and you're not involved , so being in that game to watch wont give you anything except pain , maybe you know i , then what is the solution ?...here it is , try to get anything you love in your life , distract your attention away from her , read books, watch movies , anything that gets you in it , that makes you forget the world , yu have also to keep thinking that you will waste precious moments on nothing , just dreaming , and dreams are so far from the truth , you might take years to forget her , and at last you will regret losing all these nice things that you had around you but you never looked at them while they were yours , because you were busy looking at something that's not yours , noone can get everything he wants in life , but if you love her and she doesnt love you , have some sympathy for yourself , and you love it by not leting it get hur from that , you caress your soul , start looking for what you can get , and whenever you feel like you will be weak before her , keep reminding yourself of your agreement with it , and the pain you causin to yourself that noone will feel it except you and that YOU dont deserve that , fight the thought with everything you have "dont pretend just you're trying to forget with a previous unconscious intention not to ,,because some do "....be open to the life around you , because what you're wasting today , will never be available tomorrow , and good luck with life
2006-10-13 22:28:33 · answer #2 · answered by DeMeNtEd AnGeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not in love, your stuck in an unfullfilled expectation that you thought it would turn out the way you envisioned it. your pain is from your attachment. you'd be surprised how many peope are upset that the world doesnt run their way! when yuo shift the world shifts around you not the other way around! Lern to be ok wit the way it is, clearly the universe has other palns for you yet you seem to be arrgoant to think you know better than providence! can you get that? or you going to stay attached to being right about your way? women choose men, and set the game up so that we think we chose them! if that wasnt so try sleeping with one of them without their permission " it's called rape". men have second choice and you dint match up to her subconscious list of what her Mr right was supposed to be. welcome to reality! if the one you love leaves you for someone they like, then one they like will leave them for someone they love!
2006-10-10 18:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say its one sided love.its your life and we could all say move on ..chances are you will if and when you find another ..i will tell you to at least put your self out there and try to find a freind to do things with.. aleast then you can enjoy a small part of the day
2006-10-10 18:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its really sweet that you talk about her so highly, i think that you should sit her down, just you two alone, and talk it out with her, tell her how you really feel.....
2006-10-10 18:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sami G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could be......good luck in this dilemma as it's not easy dealing with it........
2006-10-10 18:14:21 · answer #6 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋