Hes mean and is always yelling ...
2006-10-10 11:05:47 · 23 answers · asked by Robin 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is always mad about something . He yells about things that I have no control over . I really cant stand to be around him at all anymore .
2006-10-10 12:17:28 · update #1
I dont really know if I still love him .
Yes we have a son hes 12 , we have been married 11 years .
2006-10-10 12:18:22 · update #2
Nope, go to the bar, get drunk..come back home and you will feel much better...Join the Club
2006-10-10 12:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah but the question is, do you still LOVE him. Why is he always yelling? Does he have an anger problem or is he under some extra stress?
I wouldn't through in the towel without a fit. Sit him down (try a public place like a restaurant where he won't yell) and talk with him. Tell him how you are feeling and that you are willing to do what it takes to make your marriage work.
We all don't like our husbands sometimes (I am not particularly fond of mine at the moment). Perhaps counseling would help.
Good luck...
2006-10-10 18:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by chi chi's mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? any kids? Did you ever ask him why he is so mean and why he yells? Is he frustrated about his job? Was he raised in a family where there was alot of yelling? Try to sit down and discuss all this with him. I believe you love your husband as a person, but you don't like all the meaness and yelling!
2006-10-10 19:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info, really; but you may consider at least trying to fix the problem first, if possible. Counseling may be a good first step at identifying the cause of his meaness and yelling. Hopefully, it's not a character issue causing the feelings he's acting on. If it's not, there is a good chance the problem is fixable...
I wish you the best!
2006-10-10 18:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though your mad at him right now and spouting off. Leaving him and getting a divorce is easy to say, but once you get into it,the pain is unbearable. Talk with him an maybe discuss a seperation, a break from each other may do you good.
2006-10-10 18:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has an illness. Is it possible you could get him to a doctor? Would he go?
It's too damn hard to live with yelling. And we don't have to put up with meaness either.
Is he so mean, you can't sit him down and discuss your feelings? If he won't , then you know he won't even consider counseling to save your marriage, so then and only then........would I leave. IS it possible you can just kick him out, so you don't have to leave??
2006-10-10 18:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling to see what his anger problems are. Tell him that you don't like him yelling all the time.
2006-10-10 18:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, seek council. Your marriage is in a phase, divorce is not the answer. It is the last resort. Hang in there as long as he is not touching you. If he does, he deserves behind bars.
2006-10-10 18:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to put up with annoying people such as the one you are describing; make sure you have enough money and stuff to make it on your own. if you don't and can't make it on your own and have to come back to him; that is the most humiliating thing to do. i know I've had to do it.
2006-10-10 18:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by terrilynn_723 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about having a threesome? Tell him you want him and another guy to meet you in the middle. Is that weird?
2006-10-10 19:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Noclone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋