This guy asked me out today and I don't really like him. He isn't ugly but I just don't. He happens to be one of my friends and he sits near me a three different classes. I don't really want to hurt his feelings. Any ideas?? I'm supposed to tell him by lunch time tommorrow.
2006-10-10 10:39:53 · 15 answers · asked by fruit salad 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just go out with him once. if no fireworks then say so at the end of the date. that way you wont break his heart to much. what is it going to hurt for him to take you out and have fun. my mom always said that you should always go out with a guy once. it gives him a chance to impress you his way and its free to you. if its to bad of a date you can always call for a ride home from someone. how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot??
2006-10-10 10:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by countrygalsline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it isn't there, it isn't there. If you don't like him, tell him tomorrow by lunch time. Don't be worried about his hurt feelings because then you will end up dating him. Tell him that you are flattered but you would rather just stay friends!
2006-10-10 10:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him gently that he's a close friend of yours, and you fear losing that closeness if you get together. Let him know you aren't ready for a relationship with him, or possibly anyone, and it's not because of him. Just make sure he knows it's not him, and that you still want to be friends.
2006-10-10 10:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by chocolate_acolytes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Tell him u like him as a friend, but thats as far as its gonna go. If that hurts his feelings, theres not alot anyone can do about it. I'm sure he will survive.
2006-10-10 10:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that he is a really great guy but he would be a better friend to you than a boyfriend at this time in your life
2006-10-10 11:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by spiritwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think of him more as a friend & you dont want to ruin the friendship.
2006-10-10 10:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you ask your parents and they told you that you were too young to date it worked for me when I didn't want to date a guy good luck to you
2006-10-10 10:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be blunt and tell him that you don't really want to date anybody but you can still hang out and be friends.
2006-10-10 10:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Kennedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest & tell him that your not ready to take your friendship to that level & you just want to remain friends.
2006-10-10 10:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" I am really very flattered that you asked me out, but as we have so many classes together, it could make things uncomfortable for us both...
I hope you understand, but no thank you!"
If he does...congratulate his maturity, if not, you made a good call not seeing him socially.
2006-10-10 10:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by boredjessie2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋