I have a boyfriend whom I have 2 kids with but last year I fell hard for another man and now he's gone & I'm still with my boyfriend (which we fight & argue almost every day) and I miss my friend so much I cry every day for him. what do i do? this other man made me smile again, made me happy. when i think about the times we spent together i cry. what made me happy then now only makes me sad. why cant i get over him & love my boyfriend?
2006-10-10 10:32:30 · 7 answers · asked by leekee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's obvious you don't love your boyfriend, why stay with someone who makes u so unhappy? I know what you are going through I had the same experience, when u meet somebody else who can give you that bounce back in your step and make you feel so good nothing else compares to that and it's the worse feeling in the world knowing that you can't have that person because of one thing or another. I'm not gonna say get over this guy cos I know it's easier said than done. I hope you sort things out. xx
2006-10-10 11:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by ball_cathie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children or no children you have feelings for the lost love. does this current man know? if not its time to talk. don't-----have more children until you know who you will be with in the future, it may be none of them or you may be surprised.after talking with the current man and you cant work it out I'm sure the other man had family friends you know? don't!!! get high expectations. he may have moved on with his life and may be very happy. take time to think and talk this over with a trusted person.please try not to cry. you make me cry as im going through very hard times myself.I've had alot of schooling 4.0 grade average but, that does not matter when it comes to the affairs of the heart. or one goes through troubled times. i wish you the best.
2006-10-10 10:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have had kids with the new guy, the more babies you can have with different men the better you will be and the more you will help to insure that the children get an upbringing with no positive male figure and the will insure the continued growth of our prison population. Thanks for all you are doing for society.
2006-10-10 10:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by mark f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um mm Nope, Not desperate anyway,
2016-03-28 04:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u have to kids wit this guy u need to tell him how u feel i take it have tried already if u guys ffight all the time! so u should try to forget about the other guy and try to work it out for ur kids sake!! if ur thinking about another man then of course ur gonna think bad of ur boyfriend!
2006-10-10 10:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to do what makes you the happiest. It's tough when kids are involved.
2006-10-10 10:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by bbydol221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOUR HEART BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE...
2006-10-10 10:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋