2006-10-10 10:22:55 · 25 answers · asked by amberblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry about it. If you could have had kids you'd still be with that selfish ****. At least you know whoever chooses you does it for the right reason.
The reason being - that they want to be with you- for you. And not for your womb.
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2006-10-10 11:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by tom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, sometimes we have steep mountains to climb. There is absolutely no good reason for the treatment you get from your ex. Taking him on would only lower your self esteem. This path your life has taken may allow you to travel as a volunteer to disaster zones worldwide to help those in need (just an example). Your life is precious.
My advice is to focus on things that would show him the wonderful person he left behind (while you actually keep your mind off him). Do things that would bring joy to others if you already don't do so. And most of all continue to love yourself.
2006-10-10 23:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by dream_angel_come_true 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser he must be! You are better off without him. That just goes to show you how immature he is. There is someone that will love you regardless. I am married to man that was 37 when we were married and I had had a hysterectomy 1.5 years before I met him. He knew that I would never be to have a child for him....he loves me anyways. We have looked into international adoption....but my dtr is getting married and we could be grandparents in the next few years. There are several options such as adoption, step children, there are embryo banks, and egg donors for you to experience childbirth.
Good luck...you deserve so much better!
2006-10-10 18:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on holiday!!! Have a Fabulous social life!!! Tell him to p i s s off and show him what he's missing out on by being woke up constantly for the next 2 - 3 years by a screaming kid. Having no sex with his new g/f because they are both so tired, argueing for the same reason. Feeling left out and abandoned by her as she spends all her time and attention on the new arrival. And being financially 'restricted' for the next 18 years.
He's a major w****r for doing what he's doing. Forget him! He's not worth it.
2006-10-11 06:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bodieann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say on this, it should him being unable to have kids, lord only knows what his children will grow up to be like, if this is the sort of role model, they are being given, insensitve, cruel, childish, it really is pathetic what he is doing, and really cruel.
You have had a very narrow escape, ignore him, and sever all contact with him, he really isnt worth getting upset about, he knows what hurts you and is using this against you, do not let him see he has done so.
The right man, who really loves you will stay with you regardless, my husband didnt have children, and I had to have a hysterectomy before me met, we have been together for 10 years, if you truly love someone, you will work round it.
2006-10-11 14:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't love you if he left you. If you love someone, you don't leave them just because they can't give birth to children. You stay with them and adopt children, if you want them. He is being really insensitive if he's rubbing your nose in the fact that he's going to be a father. Tell him you feel he's being really unkind. It isn't your fault you can't have children of your own. And stay away from this nasty man. How cruel can he be? I feel sorry for his children. They have a jerk for a father. I hope he grows up before they do!
2006-10-10 17:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that's the mentality of your ex then feel sorry for the kids! Ignore the Muppet and live your own life, he'll never be able to take that away from you!
2006-10-14 12:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Robbie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m so sorry your ex is treating you like that,I know how that must make you feel.He`s a very cold hearted person to say such a thing like that to you,the best way to handle this is to not let him know what he`s saying is bothering you,he likes upsetting you and the more you show its hurting you the more he will continue to do it
2006-10-10 17:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by ravenmo2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think how much better it is for you to be out of that situation. He is a jerk. So what if you cannot have chiildren? Adoption is always an otion. Find some one who will respect you and love you and don't worry about this jerk.
2006-10-10 17:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move away, have nothing to do with him and be glad that he is your X. Who would want to be with a man who enjoyed making another human suffer because of circumstances beyond their control. I pity his children and his new partner. He is a selfish and smug person.
2006-10-10 17:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋