I ALSO JUST FOUND OUT SHE MET SOMEONE AND THAT THEY ALREADY KISSED WHICH MEANS THAT SHE IS OBVIOUSLY OVER ME AND IT DIDN'T TAKE HER LONG TO MOVE ON WHICH IS UPSETTING. I have not met any one AND I KNOW IF i DID I WOULD BE OVER HER. WHAT SHOULD I DO? SHE IS 30 I AM 27..
2006-10-10 10:14:18 · 9 answers · asked by Nathann S 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Join the club. Yes it is very normal. I believe it would be abnormal not to. But the best advice is to move on. You can have all the "pity parties" you want to but they will not bring you happiness. Find someone else and share all that love you are storing up with her.
2006-10-10 10:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is normal to tear up after a long relationship. First of all, just because she kissed another guy does not mean she is over you. Trust me, I am a woman I know these things. And second of all. its probably just a rebound. In fact its a good sign she's kissing someone else, because it means she wants that connection in her life again, which means, SHE MISSES YOU!!! you two need to sit down and talk :)
2006-10-10 17:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Getting over" someone is a lot more complicated than meeting someone else. If she's already kissing someone else - it doesn't neccessarily mean she's over you. But you should concentrate on you being happy. That's the best way to get on with your life. Get out and do things that make you happy. Before you know it you will be happy - and then maybe you can meet someone who will stick longer than 3 years.
2006-10-10 17:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by northstarbear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's normal.
Especially if, as you say, it was a long passionate relationship of 3 years. That's a lot of time to invest in a relationship.
Trust me. Don't, worry. You'll meet someone and move on.
2006-10-10 17:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ed A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on as well. It's over. Just because you meet someone doesn't mean that you are over someone else. You should get over her BEFORE you meet another person. It would not be fair to them to still be in pain over your ex.
2006-10-10 17:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that...don't worry...you have to get over her cause she no longer wants you. I am srue you are better off without a woman like that. take time out and breath a little before you start dating again.
2006-10-10 21:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its normal to tear up. Im sorry shes done this to you. All you can do, is move on. Forget about her. Shes not worth another thought. Go out there and have some fun. Youre FREE to do whatever you please now.
2006-10-10 17:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by ~~ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG, that is so cute. its perfectly normal. it will take a while to get over her, but you will. a first love is always hard to forget. but she might not be over you.
who dumped who?
did she talk of marrige?
have you spoken to her since the break-up?
did you tell her you miss her?
2006-10-10 17:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by monkey_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should grow up and move on.
2006-10-10 17:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋