I have been close mates with this guy for about 3 years now and we're finally getting to a point where things might happen. I am very concious that i have a couple of small stretch marks from weight loss just below my stomach line that would be really quite visable should he see them..... from a man's point of view would that put a feller off??? Would apreciate your thoughts...
2006-10-10 09:31:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
My mrs had a cicerian thingy when our daughter was born, it left a bit of a mess, but to be honest her a'ss will take my attention from it anytime. Honestly though, she hates it and is very concious of it, It doesn't bother me at all, it bothers me cos it bothers her thats all. Anyway, i bet your fella has something weird hidden under his clothes that he will feel concious about. Don't worry bout anything just go for it.
2006-10-10 09:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Grogsy34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl, but in my experience men r usually so chuffed to be getting some they don't notice much except for you boobies :)
Just be confident and remind yourself that the stretch are there because you lost weight, if it was not your stretch marks, i am sure you would be just as conscious about other parts of your body like your bum/thighs etc. As women we always find some fault in our bodies (mine are my chunky legs n ugly feet) which other people don't seem to notice half as much as we do, so relax and have fun
2006-10-10 23:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by jojitsui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Are you being totally honest?
How significant is a couple of stretch marks to you, surely in three years you've got more important things in your relationship, than a couple of stretch marks. Where do you give yourself credit? Think on those lines.
2006-10-10 16:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Chris cc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love each other, he will notice it but not "see" it - it will hold no significance for him whatsoever. Because of the relationship that has already developed between the two up to now, he will love your heart ("inner man") first, and your "outer man" second. That's how it's supposed to be. If this was the case, wouldn't you just be totally relaxed in his company, with or without your clothes on....? All the best for your developing relationship.
2006-10-10 17:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by 850se 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the light off! sorry but u wanted honest men. if it gets to that point, once hes past the point of no return then he wont be that bothered at all. u can get cream that reduces it visability over time i think but in all honesty if he,s a real gentleman he wont mention it. good luck 4 u both in the future
2006-10-10 16:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says anything, simply offer to gain the weight back in effort to make the stretch marks disappear. I'm sure he will be fine with the marks...
2006-10-10 16:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by bigdogthepirate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I have an opinion. :) I think that since you guys have been friends for so long, he's checked out your body before. So, if he happens to see you naked b/c things are moving forward, I doubt he will notice any of the small imperfections you notice with your body. He will be amazed that he's got you. Don't worry.
2006-10-10 16:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'd known someone for three years and became attracted to them, it really wouldn't matter if you had stretch marks, cellulite, three legs or anything. Three years is a long time to get to know someone during which time looks become totally irrelevent.
2006-10-10 16:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Warlock Fiend 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man in his right mind would be put off by a few stretch marks! I am sure if iyou were int he state of undress you would need to be in for him to see him then they would be last thing on his mind!
2006-10-10 16:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by Andy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't think so, however you didn't tell your age. Under 25's are funny, over 25's are bit more mature. Over 55's and they ask you if their stretch marks put you off!
2006-10-10 16:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋