I'm just wondering why some of you are never satisfied. I realize not all men are the same, and that there are some really good guys out there. I'm just wondering is it the thrill of the chase that excites you? Do you get bored when the "territory has bee conquered? I mean, I'm a great cook, I'm very attractive, I have a great sense of humor. I never nagged about the amount of time he spent with his friends or tried to control him. I just loved him and tried to give him what he needed. I work and make my own money so money isn't an issue. Still he cheated and then left me for the other girl. He even said himself that he doesn't know why he did it and wishes he could take it back. Why? I don't understand. Maybe you can shed some light on this for me. Was I too good to him?
2006-10-10 09:26:14 · 14 answers · asked by lovelee1 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I was describing myself based on all the things he said he liked about me. I'm not a conceited person at all. But I do know that I was really good to him. We had great sex and everything. He told me he's just being a man. I was just wondering if you all feel that way.
2006-10-10 09:34:33 · update #1
I'll shed some light on it will you marry me? this guy was mentally ill lol what a moron! the grass is always greener on the other side till you get there he'll regret giving you up trust me
2006-10-10 09:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It definately is not you. I am a guy and I find that if I have been with someone for a long time (year or more) it gets old. You get into a routine and it sucks. Most, not all, men are like this. Some can be satisfied with one gal, and you sound great, but for the rest they just want something different. I don't know if that helps but that is my opinion.
2006-10-10 16:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by moussesdad 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yep. You definitely were too good for him. He had it all and had to mess it up and now he's sorry he did. You should be happy. Look at the bright side: Wouldn't you rather find out how he is now than after 15 years of marriage and a couple of kids? At least now, you get to move on and use that experience to become a better judge of character.
2006-10-10 16:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what reason he did it so u shouldn't even search for answers because when it comes right down to it he just didn't love u enough he barely even cared because if he truly cared he would have at least told u his feelings before he actually cheated so that way u could have made a clean mature break and you wouldn't have hated him as much. its nothing u did he was just not the guy for you be happy ur rid of him
2006-10-10 16:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by lia86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear what happened. His actions show that he has low class and didn't deserve you.
Reality is, we get bored and distracted. But that's no excuse for being disrespectful.
Best advice I can offer is that you should put all that behind you, focus on you for awhile and see where the road of life leads. This might have been a nexus to get you to where your destiny lies.
Good luck!
2006-10-10 16:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Roland 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a old saying. The better you are to a man the worse he'll treat you. Don't be to nice. They will walk all over you.
2006-10-10 16:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hope no one is cruel enough to be mean to you in word or action, know there is someone out there for you, please not on the net, so many play act, and yes, it appears you were good to him, some guys just fall for high heel losers,its better you found out now, If he wants to come back, he HAS to earn your trust, and once that is broken, its the hardest thing in the world to forgive and forget, please don't condem every single guy becauce of one,
2006-10-10 16:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were too good for him. He is an idiot
Regarding your last comment-
Some men cheat,some don't
same applies for women.
2006-10-10 16:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sweetheart and I have been married 25 years and neither one of us has cheated.
2006-10-10 16:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were too good to him and for him. The boy got issues.
2006-10-10 16:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋