ok i love my boyfriend and i love this other kid to i have been happy with my boyfriend but he keeps pushing me away and the other kid said he wants to try things between us i wanna but i dont know what should i do
2006-10-10 09:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Felicia 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i think that you shouldnt stress it.
Love is something that is best with ONE person so this means that you dont love either of them.
Find someone else
2006-10-10 09:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very strong word, and a lot of feelings, emotions, responsibility, and stress come along with it...when it's real.
I think that you may be in a very sensitve position. See, when we first get into a relationship with somebody, we (as females) look for love...or at least the potential of it. So, we r not interested in what anybody else has to offer, we're solely focused on our boyfriend.
Once we (both the boy and the girl) get comfortable with eachother, 2 things begin to happen. 1, we no longer feel the need to do "special things" to win the other's heart, and 2, we get bored and begin to yearn for something new and exciting.
I personally think that you may not actually be in love with either of them...u just have strong feelings for them, or you're highly infatuated.
My advice to u is to tell your boyfriend how u feel...the fact that he seems to be pushing you away...and find out exactly how he feels. If things don't get better, then tell him that u love him (if ur SURE that u do) but u think u need some time apart. During this time, see what happens with the other young man.
2006-10-10 10:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember very clearly the days i was a teenager in love. We were together from age 13 to 17. we only broke up because his family moved across country. During our years as teenage sweethearts i broke his heart and he broke mine and yes he pushed me away from time to time and i did get together with other guys. I found myself in your situation acouple of times and i must say that you may indeed love your boyfriend as i did but you have to ask yourself do you really love the other guy or is it an attraction and couriosity? I do not know how old you are but sometimes it can be difficult to tell the difference. FORGET ABOUT WHAT DIXIE SAID.....she obviously has never been inlove or is just bitter. Good luck!!!
2006-10-10 09:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jaymie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should either talk to your boyfriend about how he pushes you away or go with the other boy. You have all your life to find true love. So you can be single like me until you find mr. right which I think for me is when I'm done doing my dream career. A chef and opening my restaurant. All men do is hurt you most of the time anyways. I hear of it alot. and even most of the time in my family
2006-10-10 09:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Smokey the Bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if your boyfriend keeps pushing you away he isnt a keeper, and isnt in love with you maybe you should move on and give this other guy a chance sounds like he cares for you more than your boyfriend who pushes you away, you know what I mean. Good Luck.
2006-10-10 09:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna try things with the other kid, I would wonder if you really love your boyfriend. And, depending on the things you wanna try, you might lose your boyfriend. Is it really worth it?
2006-10-10 09:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Cupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a decision and be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you are interested in someone else and if he keeps pushing you away you might just leave him for this other mystery guy...dont tell him who you are interested in....if he gets mad and breaks up with you ....hey you still got the other guy right?
2006-10-10 09:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by cashmoneycuban 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick the guy who you can get along with and treats you with more respect, if your boyfrind pays know attention to you forget about him and let him be a jerk, you have to go along to get along, i was in the same situation once its tough i know you should think about it for a while put things on hold with your boyfriend spend time with each of them before you decide
2006-10-10 09:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by AJ T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart and date. You sound like you are fairly young, just by you saying that your in love with two guys. You will "love" probably 100 more before you find mr. right....but just follow your heart...that will be your best bet.
2006-10-10 09:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in this situation it means that you don't love your boyfriend. LOVE is strong and it doesn't make you like someone else. So don't say you love this person when in reality you don't little girl. "NEVER LEAVE THE ONE YOU LOVE FOR THE ONE YOU LIKE, AS THE ONE YOU LIKE WILL EVENTUALLY LEAVE YOU FOR THE ONE THEY LOVE"
2006-10-10 09:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixchickNY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋