ive been seeing this guy but its been only sex from his side and he has been honest about it.What he hasnt been honest about and i found out is the reason why he wants only sex and he does everything so that we dont get close,or that i dont get close.he has a 3 year old relationship.im very jealous and i want him to get close to me cos we do have a great chemistry,he likes me..r there any ways to do that?
2006-10-10 09:12:03 · 12 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you, not her.
He's been straight up with you about what he wants, my guess is if you start being clingy or jealous, he'll drop you like a hot potato.
2006-10-10 09:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a very good candidate for a boyfriend for you considering he has been in a relationship for the past three years and having sex with you on the side. Think about it, if he has done this to his girlfriend behind her back, what make you think he wouldn't do the exact same thing to you if you were his girlfriend. There are too many other guys out there than for you to settle for bull s h i t like that.
2006-10-10 09:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You found out that he is with another woman and has been for 3 years and you are still having sex with him and you want to break them up so that you can be with him? I sure wish I read that wrong. There are more men out there that are single and that you can be with in that way. I wouldn't advice you to be a home wrecker. This other woman has no idea of you and she is going to hurt so bad when she finds out. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. EVER. You and him have only been doing this for a short time....... I can tell in your writing. Walk away from this, you are only going to get hurt in the end. I am sure of it. Blessed be.
2006-10-10 09:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is only using you to get what he is not receiving from his other girl.
Now that you know he only wants sex and that he has another GF
if you end up getting hurt you will only have yourself to blame.
Why would you want to be with someone like that anyways ?
If hes cheating with you don't you think he will be capable of doing the same to you?
Make the right choice, cut him off before you end up getting really hurt.
2006-10-10 09:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I had the same problem this what you do get some back ups for yourself and make sure he knows about them. be as truthful anyone can be. then maybe you will find someone who feels the same way about you. but hey don let ol'dude go until you sure you found someone turn the tables on him and you won't feel used because you are taking advantage of the situation.
2006-10-10 09:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by The great green eve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... we want what we can't have. You're doing that now. Walk away and turn the tables. Be strong if it works, it could be good, if not, find another match.
2006-10-10 09:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by rpone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not now... you can't go into a relationship knowing it's one thing and then try to change the rules.. you knew it was purely sexual so you have to accept it or move on..
2006-10-10 09:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could start seeing someone else because he is just using you and has been lying to you and maybe if he sees you with someone else he will realize what you mean to him or maybe for your sake you will find out that you are better off with someone else
2006-10-10 09:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by stormy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get pregnent so you can be his babies momma, and by the way can I get your addy so I can have a hoe on the side too.
2006-10-10 09:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dang you're desperate.
2006-10-10 09:14:52 · answer #10 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋