ok me and my ex aren't together no more we still **** though....two weeks ago he broke up with his girl and asked me back out i saod i need to think about it....yesterday we found out that his ex is pregnant and it might be is or his cousins baby wut should i do get back wit him and just wait till the babys born to find out if its his or just stay how we are now... or we can just keep it as friends.....i dont know wut to do i need help......
2006-10-10 09:08:56 · 16 answers · asked by leli 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
I know you might have feelings for this guy still, but this sounds very complicated. If the baby is his, and his ex keeps the baby, he might have to take care of the child by watching her sometimes, as well as helping out financially. Getting involved in something like this can end up being also affecting your life later on, if you and this guy end up marrying. (It's probably not the first thing on your mind, but I'm just naming potential problems.) Also, it sounds as though all these people aren't especially careful with it comes to sex. If your ex's cousin slept with someone else, and then slept with this girl...and then your ex slept with her and then you, this could lead to STIs... Getting back with this guy just doesn't sound like a good idea. If you can see him as a friend, then take the friends route...but make sure it's not friends with benefits.
2006-10-10 13:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by can_u_still_feel_the_butterflies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you, He has no respect for you or for his ex so why would you want that person back into your life. Did you just take a stupid pill or something. Because you are acting like a real Idiot.... Also he will cheat on you again you idiot. My answer is not only no but hell no........... You have just made me see how stupid a girl like you can be.................... P.S. Can you be honest enough with me and tell me why do you think that he will stick it out with you if you got pregnant You are a real idiot.
2006-10-10 09:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 the baby
2006-10-10 09:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by portillomgl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say stay away.. You are probably better off. As far as the **** part; you are not allowing yourself to get over him and move on. If he is up to it, stay friends, which I doubt he is. Don't get your self more deeply involved, you're only hurting yourself.
2006-10-10 09:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Curious Person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Jerry Springer show
2006-10-10 09:12:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just leave him and don't even bother with him anymore. It seems like he is taking you for a emotional rollacoaster ride. There are plenty of guys out there, don't screw with your feelings on this one..
2006-10-10 09:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of this guy and quit sleeping with him. It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.
2006-10-10 09:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds bad. Get out and find someone worth your while. He's irresponsible if he's getting girls pregnant.
2006-10-10 09:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by To Be Free 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first do you remember why it didn't work out the first time? It sounds like you are best to stay friends and remember you have sex with him, he has sex with her, she has sex with others, others have sex with others. I hope if you are having sex with him it is safe sex. Good luck
2006-10-10 09:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop **** with him first, u r inviting problems.
secondly,, forget him, and learn to live a disciplined life , steady life with one man life long, sho lives with u life long
good luck
2006-10-10 09:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Friends Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋