I'm a girl, and there's a guy I really like who's perverted (makes sex jokes, etc). Pretty much all his friends are perverts too, and I'm pretty sure he likes them more than me just because of that. I know if I become perverted he'll like me more too. The hard thing about this is that I feel angry, insulted, and prejudiced when he makes those kind of remarks and I think they're sexist, yet he has female friends who are the same way (are they blind to being objectified or do they just not care?). I know he probably doesn't mean anything by them but I can't help it. I want him and everyone else to like me, so I really want to become perverted, and fast.
2006-10-10 08:50:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I'm a girl, and there's a guy I really like who's perverted (makes sex jokes, etc). Pretty much all his friends are perverts too, and I'm pretty sure he likes them more than me just because of that. I know if I become perverted he'll like me more too. The hard thing about this is that I feel angry, insulted, and prejudiced when he makes those kind of remarks and I think they're sexist, yet he has female friends who are the same way (are they blind to being objectified or do they just not care?). I know he probably doesn't mean anything by them but I can't help it. I want him and everyone else to like me, so I really want to become perverted, and fast.
EDIT: I should probably add that this goes beyond this to the rest of the world. I get disgusted by pretty much anything sexual. The fact that I'm entering a very sex-filled industry (advertising) doesn't help much either...
2006-10-10 09:06:33 · update #1
Well the motive of the pervert is his massive desire for sex all the time. Thus, you must emulate this. Now this is very similar to being "slutty", and so you have to draw a fine line. The line that differentiates perversion from sluttiness is humor. So you must express your desire in a humorous way.
Also, a lot of humorous perverts are not original, which means that they get their material from other sources. One great source is the hit TV show "Family Guy", which I find many jokes stolen from. So in order to cultivate your humor, I would suggest watching some episodes of "Family Guy".
Hope that helps!
2006-10-10 10:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by peon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it sounds like you're trying to hard. you have to be comfortable with who you are. If you feel his perverted remarks objectify women, then ask yourself what you truely "like" about him. If its purely superficial (for example, "hes cute") then forget about him. Also, the girls he hangs around with who act perverted are simply wanting the "cute guy" and that is only a short term attraction, belive me. To sum it up, be true to yourself and you will find a man instead of a perverted boy.
2006-10-10 15:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by john 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as i guy i wouldn't want a girl just because she's a pervert, actually that would turn me off. u need to be different, guys like girls want what we can't have! And if he already has alot of friends that are that way you'll just blend into the crowd and he wont notice you! u need to contradict him, get him to notice you and like they say, there's a thin line between love and hate. we like a challenge!
2006-10-10 16:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chuy V1.08 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a sheep and follow the flock. be yourself,not a clone. I think you'd better check out the meaning of "pervert". I'm pretty sure you don't want to be one of those
2006-10-10 15:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there....try to distance yourself from this guy- Too often we are attracted to that "bad boy" image that he seems to portray well. Sad that we live in a world where we have to get used to sex and violence at early ages and accept it as normal. If you can't shake your crush, try to get him away from the crowd and see if maybe there is a real person in there, underneath the slime. :D
2006-10-10 16:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jessiham 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't become perverted....Once you get into the habit, you can hardly get out of it. Some guys will even take advantage of you very easily....
2006-10-10 15:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by TPCAN 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when he matures a little, he will change. Then you will be out of fashion if you were part of the perverted scene
2006-10-10 15:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by XT rider 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are already a pervert if you have to ask.
2006-10-10 22:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by miltarybrat108 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't need this guy or anyone(male or female) like him. Be yourself. respect yourself, and most of all bleive in yourself. This guys an idiot..
2006-10-10 15:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I could not finish what you wrote, but you need help, ask help to your parents, counselor, priest, therapist, psychologist, but you need it, you are confused. You need a good guide
2006-10-10 16:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by pelancha 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋