If your boyfriend or male friend told you he thought he was bi, would you encourage him to try gay sex to find out or would you try to play the male role for him? Would you want to participate in a threesome with them?
2006-10-10 08:47:29 · 12 answers · asked by girlieboi1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would talk to him about it. I would get some gay videos and watch them with him to find out his feelings and what turned him on. If it would help him, I'd dress like a guy and use my strap on on him. I like doing that anyway. If he wanted a real guy, I'd hook him up with one of my gay friends. Yes, I'd do a threesome with them.... if we could all be boys.!
2006-10-16 11:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by debbysfemail 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At this point in my life, I would not encourage him to try sex with anyone else. But I haven't always been monogamous, so it would really depend on how I felt about the hypothetical him. We could look at guys together, and I could certainly "play the male role" for him. I might even try the threesome.
2006-10-10 15:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he saying he THINKS he is bi- or has been with a male. Does he have feelings for both male and female. Is he trying to tell you something???
No i wouldnt try to play a male role-
threesome- hell yeah- see what role he takes. I wouldnt encourage to allow him to take part in one on one gay sex if you are dating him..
You must be pretty young.. If you feel he is seeking sex from a male and doesn't know his true self- you need to think about your relationship. If he has doubt- that's an issue..
If you agree with him seeking one on one sex with a male, while with you- well then i think it wrong....
2006-10-11 00:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't let him participate in sex with another man and then let him make love to me. I know where his dick has been and its not going to touch me after that! It would be hard for me to play the male role due to the fact that I am completly feminine. As for the threesome, that is up to you. It would be ok with me as long as the third party was a woman.
2006-10-10 17:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
definitely! i think gay male sex is hot, and since i'm bi, i'd certainly participate, but i'd also try to play a male role for him by using a strap on or something because part of me is pretty dominating!
2006-10-13 00:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by utxicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs some experimentation in their life at some point! But, a couple (married or dating) should be prepared to face the consequences after the fact! I am the jealous type; so a threesome probably wouldn't be a good idea! If he wanted to experiment on his own; after we talked about it....I would tell him to just do it!!
2006-10-10 18:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
good question...i was thinking about this the other day...because i think...no i know i am bi curious...can i call myself bi if i haven't slept with a women yet...but desire it? not sure..anyway...so i was thinking about how i'm suppose to tell my wonderful bf that i'm curious as to what it would be like with a women and want to take the opportunity someday if it crosses me...so i asked myself..how would i re-act if he came to me and said he was bi....and it grossed me out...no offence guys! but i can't picture letting a guy go down on my man...or another women even. i know that sounds unfair since i want to try it...how can i expect him to understand if i don't think i could if the role was reversed. although he told me he had a friend put moves on him and he politely turned him down...he's secure being with women. But then i wouldn't want him touching another women if we were doing a three some...well maybe he could touch her breasts...but no going down on her...so who knows...guess i can't mix the 2...and doing so behind his back would be considered cheating even though it's same sex right? so who knows when i'll get the opportunity to experience it.
2006-10-10 16:41:28 · answer #7 · answered by tigerlily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are a married man, to a wonderful woman, and still like to go to sex shops and watch porn with guys masturbating, are you gay? Bi? or courious? Of course you should let him try gay sex.
2006-10-10 18:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by michael o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my friend that was a boy (because i dont have boyfriends) told me he might be bi, i would tell him to find out. and if he turns out to be then he needs to find him a man. there is no way that i would play that role for him, and it probably wouldnt satisfy him anyway. and why was this question directed to bisexual girls? a straight girl could answer this as well, dont you think?
2006-10-10 17:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by psychologistnovelist 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one. I'm bicurious and I told my boyfriend and he wants me to experiment with other women.
2006-10-10 17:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋