well i have this "friend" that i've known all my life. we used to be bff's, inseperable but then i moved to a neighboring town and we kinda didnt talk to each other for a while but we'd talk one the phone like once every three months and we'd see each other at parties.
a few months later she moved to the same town as me but she went to a different school and our communication got even weaker.
now, we're in the same school and we run into each other once or twice. but the thing is i really don't like who she's become. i think she's hanging out with the wrong crowd and she's not the same person she was back when we were bff's. i found out that she stil considers me a friend and i've been dropping hints like crazy that i think we need to talk but she seems oblivious to it all.
i'm really confused and i don't know what to do. got any advice for me?
2006-10-10 08:46:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you can't make someone be your friend.
you can continue to be nice to her, and maybe invite her to go somewhere. Maybe to the mall, just to hang out and reconnect.
Don't preach, be a good model of behavior Let her know that you think she is a great person and you miss her.
If she has gotten in with a different crowd, you may have to let her go. It is a sad thing, but you might have to mind your own business, even if it breaks your heart.
I'm impressed that you are trying to be her friend.
Good luck.
2006-10-10 08:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me too, but my friend didn't move to the same town as me. but i think it's normal because u both haven't seen each other for a really long time, but if u do feell bad u can make a lot more new friends
2006-10-10 08:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her. same thing happened with me and my old friends. is she getting into drugs and sex? and your not? sorry if i'm off track but it's just a guess. one would need more information to really answer your question but my guess is that you're not really friends anymore. and your probably will never be again. it's time for you to move on.
2006-10-10 08:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel next time you see her!Dont come down and say"I dont like who you are and who your friends are"That hurts your feelings,Ive had that happen!Just make sure you make the point of how much you miss her!
2006-10-10 08:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋