i am pregnate and i am only 17 and i don't think that i am old enough to get married i am scared cause you know how some people are when you say i do they own you.
2006-10-10 08:27:37 · 14 answers · asked by julie_ismael_123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
#1 you don't have to get married anymore its not the 1920's anymore. You are young. have your baby and carry on. The chances of a lasting relationship at this point is not likely. Sorry but you asked.
2006-10-10 08:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I got married when I was 17. I am now 25 and my marriage ended 6 months ago. These days to many people change and you can't expect to live your life with someone that you didn't marry at first.
I would have the baby and be happy with your baby and your man. There is no law that says you have to marry the father of your child.
2006-10-10 15:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your not old enough to get married and you need to be talking to the baby daddy or your guardian or someone but not spreading it on the internet maybe it hasnt set n yet but this is a big issue good luck.
2006-10-10 15:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by MonieJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i wouldnt get married cuz thats a real young age n maybe u havent experienced yet by living together first n then that way u get to know him better n if u like how u guys live then go for it . although u should tell him that he doesnt own u cuz u r not an object but the mother of his child.
2006-10-10 15:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by ddelga2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!!!!!! There is no reason to rush. i know that you are prego but getting married is not a good reason or solution to your situation. getting married will not make yall love each other more or make your relationship better. i would wait at least 3 years. good luck coming from a young mother at 17. email me if want anymore advice
2006-10-10 15:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont wanna get married you dont have to get married, the dad can still be involved in your childs life without you too being married, and if you are scared that your partner is gonna be too possessive then you definitely dont have to get married.
2006-10-10 15:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by its_me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, no one can force to get married without your own will no matter how old you are. There's no religious matter says that either. If you're pregnant with someone's baby and you're not ready to commit yourself to him like that then you shouldn't regardless of your age or situation.
2006-10-10 15:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by bettyspagettii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe you are not old enough to get married don't. If you do you will regret it later. On your pregnancy there are options do what you want and no one else. Good Luck
2006-10-10 15:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in different times now - you shouldn't "have" to get married if you are pregnant. If you don't want to get married, then don't - there are other options for you out there.
2006-10-10 15:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
GET MARRIED? YOU CAN'T EVEN SPELL PREGNANT. AND YOU'RE HAVING SEX?
IF YOU DO DECIDE TO GET MARRIED, DON'T BE SURPRISED IF YOU FIND A GIFT-WRAPPED SHOVEL WITH A BOW IN IT.......AND A 10 POUND BAG OF POTATOES WITH "101 WAYS TO COOK A POTATO" INCLUDED.
IF YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND THAT, THEN YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED.
2006-10-10 15:33:12 · answer #10 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋