when will you accept a lieying complement from ur husband?
2006-10-10 07:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wouldn't mind a white lie if, say i'm sick as a dog and he says I look beautiful eventhough I know I look as sick as I feel. Because that's just being nice.
If he says something like- I ask him "am I fat" and he says "no". Then I would NOT like that. I'm attractive but I could lose the extra 10 pounds I gained after joining the military, and it bothers me. He knows it. But he doesn't lie to me and make me think it's ok. He tells me that yes, I have extra "chub" on my belly and says to go to the gym. Not in a mean way. Or he'll just grab it and tickle me. It's all in fun and he's really nice about it. Wouldn't you want an honest answer? Or would you rather have him make you think things are ok? I prefer truth and motivation. Most women would prefer not to hear they should lose a few pounds... so maybe I'm just different
2006-10-10 08:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by ur a Dee Dee Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband lied to me about almost everything so if he did complement me I knew he was lying and besides he always called me a fat B*tch. I am 5'6 160 I dont think I am fat but I guess thats what he thought.
2006-10-10 07:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is stupid, crude, family humor and that i could in basic terms grin and bear it. i'm optimistic he did no longer recommend something impolite by potential of it, he develop into in basic terms in all risk surely surprised. LOL you will desire to bear in mind that it is his nephew who he's customary longer then you certainly, it is his character and it wont substitute. So do no longer make a huge deal out of it and in basic terms chortle it off.
2016-10-02 04:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by kroner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons why I'm marrying my fiance Nate is because he's always honest with me. He's not brutal, but he never lies to me. Instead of telling me, "You're wearing that!?" he says, "Shouldn't you wear something more formal?" He's usually right... and sometimes I don't like to hear it, but I'd rather him be honest than look ridiculous!!!
2006-10-10 07:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dubs82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u missed spelled lying and i wouldnt like a complement if its not the truth
2006-10-10 07:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by cutie101995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would appreciate his effort to make me feel good.
But I would be subtle and call him out.
I would say "Thank you for saying so" when he told me I was the most beautiful woman in the world.
2006-10-10 07:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure if he trying to make me feel pretty, special and Love...it's all about fostering relationships. We do things for them we don't really like...in the bedroom I am sure.
2006-10-10 07:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lovely B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell my wife like it is and every other woman. If I see a woman that has bad shirt on...I tell her that its not her and she needs more brighter colors and such...ect
never lie because they think your Horse and now you are one.
2006-10-10 07:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,if he lies about simple things as a compliment what else is he lying about
2006-10-10 07:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say no. i want to know the truth and that is what a husband if for.
2006-10-10 07:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by howdy19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋