Like one day my friend told my that she have a boyfriend.She told me his name and I know him and he is UGLY!!!!
2006-10-10 07:47:40 · 24 answers · asked by LookAway_04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No you shouldn't. Just because he's ugly to you, doesn't mean that he's ugly to her. How do you know that she cares if he's ugly. He treats her right and maybe thats what matters to her. Besides you're not the one kissing him n loving him, and going out in public with him so it really shouldn't matter to you....that is, unless you're jealous and you're just indenial about it. don't b a hater. =) thank u come again.
2006-10-10 07:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From where i stand i see it as a loose - loose situation.
If you tell her you'll probably get "who the f* asked you?! did i ever come to ruin your happiness ?"
If you don't tell her after a while, if they will fight, she'll come to you something like "I can't believe you didn't warn me! You've seen him. YOu should have opened up my eyes"
So in this situations what i do is:
1st question "What do you think about him?!" - avoid answer
2nd question: "People say he's ugly! Do you also think so?!" - answer "You're the one who has to like him! Don't think about other people say"
3rd. this time confession "I don't think it's going so well with us. Should i leave him?!" - answer "You should do what do you think it's best for you"
BE AWARE. In most cases what can be good for you might kill another. And vice-versa.
Is there a conclusion? I think yes. Try to be near your friends no matter what. YOu can say you don't like somethings (maybe somepeople some of the time), but never impose. Maybe there are women who hate MANOLO. but hey. What are we going to do about that?! Kill'em?! :) neah. Smile. Because we have better taste than them :).
2006-10-10 08:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he is ugly? Do you really know this guy, he could be the man of her dreams, but because you dont like his looks you think he isnt worth the time to get to know him? Honey if I were her I would find some friends who arent so shallow and would just be happy that I have found someone I enjoy being with.
2006-10-10 07:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he makes her happy and she doesn't care what he looks like. Or maybe you are just bias to your friend because you don't want her to get hurt so you think that no one is good enough for her. But, I would say that as long as he makes her happy I wouldn't tell her. She may get mad at you if you insult her boyfriend.
2016-03-28 03:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Shane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, Is it any of ur business? Let people be happy, maybe her self esteem is good enough that she don't need a cute boyfriend to love her. Maybe she sees him as cute b/c of his personality. I think u should open ur eyes and look beyond peoples physical and then u will see that there are more beautiful people out there than u imagine.
I say just be happy cause shes happy, dont try to put things in her head. You dont want to be to blame for anything that happends.
2006-10-10 08:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Well, *snickers* its her choice who she's dating so I wouldn't bud in really. Unless his actions are ugly I wouldn't point his facial (or other) features out to her. She probably already knows and likes him for reasons other than his face and body. If she loves his character, then his appearence isn't an object. There's more to life than looks. Just because you're not attracted to him doesn't mean she couldn't be. But, thanks for the laugh. I'm glad to know I'm not the only friend that's thought about her friends bf that way! lol Just be patient.
2006-10-10 07:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyones taste is different, you might think he is ugly but your friend might think he is the best thing since sliced bread...who says she goes for looks anyway, he might have a fantastic personality.
You might come across the best looking guy in the world who has his own head stuck up his ***...if your friend is happy then leave them be and keep your opinions to yourself.
2006-10-10 07:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't tell her that will just hurt her feelings and she may think he is good looking. There is more to a person than there looks anyway sometimes when you get to know someone you like there personality and that makes them more attractive.
2006-10-10 07:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT tell her that you find him ugly! Often people who are in love are quite blind. What seems to you ugly might be actually beautiful to her.
2006-10-10 07:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by alexia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not tell her that just cuz you think he is doesn't mean she thinks so and its not very nice to down your friends boy friend because of his looks and looks aren't everything you should like some one for who they are inside not what they look like on the out side shame on you if your friend is happy then let her be happy don't be mean and hateful because of looks
2006-10-10 16:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋