All right... Last night we were watching a tv series and there was a part when the main character[he] remember the time where he have a good time with his best friend[ which is a girl that he really like ] and he already have a girlfriend..And I go omg he still hungup on her? And my husband answer yea there are many things we can't forget about the past where we have a happy memeories with this person.. We always think about the past every now and then.. And I go WHAT? And he quickly say nothing.. And that got me SO FREAKIN PISSED!!! It make me think about how he still think about his first love and his first girlfriend.. The more I think about it the more I'm so mad.. I already have a thing in the past.. When we were living together he have his ex girlfriend pic frame and put it in a table for several months.. At first I thought it was a friend until I know it was his ex girlfriend pic that was on the table... So is it just jealous or am I wrong for being this mad!! ???
2006-10-10 07:43:48 · 11 answers · asked by funkysha916 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're a hypocrite. Are you actually going to sit there and say that you never think about someone from your past? And a jealous pyscho
2006-10-10 07:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by ????????????????? 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 01:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by mulry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should relax, my husband still talks with his exgirl friend from high school....i don't like it and he knows how I feel about it but I have to be the better and more amture woman here. If the picture is not on the table anymore don't worry about it. So he cares about the past, their are people that I have ben with and a situation might come up that reminds me of them for the moment but it passes....its just a memory. I'm sure that you have people that you think of just as he did on the couch. If things bother you tell him how you feel, and hope he understands and if it bothers you to hear such things then ask him not to say things out loud. Tell him to keep it to himself.
2006-10-10 07:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by ilih2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, having the ex's picture up still is wrong! I would be mad. My man has pics of his ex but they were together for 6 years and he has them hidden in a box. It bothered me at first, but you should never get rid of all pictures of ex's. You never know what could happen. But having them displayed on the table? Um no. I would be mad if I were you.....you need to have a talk with your man.
2006-10-10 07:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be mad he should have removed the pic when he stared dating you, before you moved in. It is only right to you. How would he feel he moved in with you and found out that you had pic of a old boyfriend still out on the table.
2006-10-10 07:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can not say that you have never thought of an ex yourshelf. Some ex,s are still friends and yes you have good memories of them and therefore it is natural for people to think of special moments from thier pasts and that does not mean he does not still love you
2006-10-10 08:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by just divorced 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean to tell me that the only relationship you ever think about is with your husband? You never see something and think about an experience shared with someone else. It doesnt mean he loves you any less, just means he had good times in relationships before you. Why get pissed at him for being honest with you. It would be different if he said that we always think about the past now and then and wish we could be with that person again. Respect his honesty.
2006-10-10 07:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not wrong to be mad. We all have bad relationships in our past and have gotten over them. But to be reminded in your own home about a past person would be a little too much.
2006-10-10 07:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are good times you will never forget about an OLD (EX). so.....
Just get over it. He has his rights to good memories!
2006-10-10 07:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by LuvMe2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh MY GOD!!!
The sky is falling!!!
LOL!
2006-10-10 08:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋