We have a joint tennancy. He keeps lying and being unreasonable and I want him to leave but he wont go? He lies about where hes been and then comes home drunk and denies that hes been drinking. I have so had enough and dont know what to do.
2006-10-10 07:42:47 · 16 answers · asked by Debbie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he won't leave then YOU should leave.
2006-10-10 07:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a joint tennancy you can't make him leave anymore than he can you. You need to get out yourself if you can't agree mutually over the situation. Surely it'd be better for you to get a clean break from everything.
2006-10-10 16:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your landlord about getting him evicted. If your landlord won't do it you're just going to have to suck it up and find your own place.
~*~ Added: Since you are Co-tenants the police won't do anything. It is now a civil matter. Even if he comes in drunk, that is legally his home as much as it is yours, so the cops will just tell you that you have to leave if you don't want to put up with it. You can also get yourself into a heap of trouble if you pack his stuff for him. This is called an unlawful eviction. If you don't want to get sued or arrested, my advice would be to discuss with your landlord what to do and if your landlord won't help you LEAVE. Finding a new place to live is far less trouble than getting yourself in a legal mess.
2006-10-10 14:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you leave instead pack up and go and dont get back with the dude.
tell the landlord what your doing say your ex will be paying all the rent. just say you have split up you dont have to say why.
2006-10-10 14:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a solicitor or one of those centres where you can get free legal advice and find out what your options are.
2006-10-10 14:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you'll just have to leave. If you really want to be done with him get out.
2006-10-10 14:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blank him throw his clothes out and get some grot to back you up!
2006-10-10 14:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is little saying that is duck wont leave pond, Pond will leave duck
2006-10-10 14:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and have them their when you are moving out or when he is, don't threaten him with it. It sounds to me like you have put up with enough.
2006-10-10 14:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pack his bags for him,he should get the hint, good luck x x
2006-10-10 14:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by captain jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get proper legal advice then either walk yourself or kick him out
2006-10-10 14:49:03 · answer #11 · answered by stud200_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋