on oct 8 2006 i went to work and came home around 2pm. i noticed that my fiance packed all of her stuff and left me. I know that she is back with her parents. we were supposed to move down to sc next month together but she left the same week. Her parents have been pressuring her to move back saying that it made them very sad for her to move with me. Her parents dun like me just to let you know. she was living with me for about four months. is there something wrong with me? she didnt even leave a note or even said good bye. she hasnt called or even contacted me...Her parents keep hanging up on me everytime that i call. they will not let me talk to her to find out what happened and why she did this to me. Im so broken hearted right now...I cant stand the pain for all this. What should I do? I love her so much...She has no idea how much she hurt me. you can look me up on myspace by using my email www.anhyeuem060288@yahoo.com
2006-10-10 07:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by anhyeuem060288 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to hear what happened to you. Love sucks sometimes. I think she probably knows how much it hurt you and it probably hurts her also. It sounds like her mind is made up and the best thing you can do is move on. I know it hurts cause I have been there and there seems like there is no why to move on but you just have to take it day by day and the pain will go away slowly. Talk to a counselor, they will help you understand things and deal with it better. Someday you will meet the woman of your dreams and you will be so thankfull this happened to you. It may sound strange but it happened to me. Just remember, everything happens for a reason. Good luck.
2006-10-10 07:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am so sorry. It is totally selfish and childish of her just to leave you without any reason. She is not ready to move and live her life with you mentally or emotionally. If she is running back to her parents and hiding behind them then she still has alot of growing up to do. As hard as it may be it is probably better she left now before you guys got married and moved. I say keep trying to contact her, but not to where it is an annoyance, because you deserve an explanation for her actions. Go out have fun ,hang out with your buddys, and get your mind off her. If she has a heart and really cared for you she will contact you. And maybe when she is ready and if you have not already moved on something good will come out of all this. Right now is the time to look over yourself and see how you truly feel about her and what you think about spending the rest of your lives together means. If she never calls then move on there is so much more to life then to be sitting and sulking about one women, when there are so many out there. Go out and enjoy life and good luck!!
2006-10-10 07:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Alessandra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me her parents have some how convinced her to leave you and get back with them. Emotional blackmail is also possible.If she had any feelings for you she would have left a note or called you. After living with you for 4 months she has probably realised you are not the man for her. On the top of all this she has parental pressure. I agree you may be in love. What is the use of one-sided love? You wait for some time. If there is no response from her side, some her manage to meet her at her work place and confront her.Satisfy yourself. The answer is to move on.
2006-10-10 07:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like living with you isn't what she thought it would be like, and miss her parents. She left while you were at work to avoid a conflict with you. Give her some space, all your doing is making matters worse by calling her. Her or her parents don't need you to keep calling, let it go and if she figures out what she wants in time maybe she will come back, but doubtful. In the future try not to get on the wrong side of parents, it doesn't make for a good relationship.
2006-10-10 07:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by QueenBee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is her problem. If she loves you, she should stand up to her parents and contact you. I know it may be difficult to do, but don't blame yourself - it doesn't sound to me like you are at fault here. There's really nothing you can do at this point. If you don't here from her, make the move on your own. Good luck!
2006-10-10 07:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Jemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask a common friend to ask her. Its a little odd that she just left without any explanation. I think she has reasons. Maybe you cheated on her or something. Or maybe her parents asked her to choose and she chose you.
2006-10-10 07:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look pal, you JUSt dodged one hell of a bullet. Sounds like your ex isn't playing with a full deck. Could you imagine finding this out AFTER getting married??? Boy are YOU lucky! I wish I'd have known ahead of time. I'd be much happier now.
2006-10-10 07:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds more like there's something wrong with her. Seems she's letting her parents make her decision for her. If so, she's not ready for you. Do what you need to for you.
2006-10-10 07:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Wahrsuul 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her what happened. tell her that you love her, that you can't live without her (women love that romantic stuff). tell her that she means the world to you, and that her parents shouldn't influence her choices. good luck, and if you need anymore advice (or a virtual shoulder to cry on), email me.
2006-10-10 07:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what a ***** man thats awful id move on i dont think shes coming back you will find someone else
2006-10-10 07:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋