2006-10-10 07:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by Allen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, DO NOT DO IT, it may be fun now but give it a few years and it WILL fall apart. Life experience plays a big part, in time you will get frustrated or she and see the big difference in your ages.
2006-10-10 07:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I take it you want to marry a certain 20 year old lady? Well, if you love her and She loves you why not? I don't see any disadvantages or advantages to it...what is that supposed to mean? As long as YOU BOTH are mature and ready for commitment, there is really no issue here. And just because she is "only" 20, doesn't mean that she's not ready for it. The way I see it is that YOU could be the one that is too immature and not ready to commit. And that would mean that age really has NOTHING to do with it. It's all in the person, and that's all that should matter. As for advantages and disadvantages.......They are no different from marrying someone closer to your own age....
2006-10-10 14:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by Cblack22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the 20 yr old girl is willing to marry him. The advantages are that 20 yr olds have a high energy level and have not established any long term annoying habits ( they are trainable) disadvantages are they get bored easily, and dont have a whole lot of relationship experience or maturity when dealing with them.
2006-10-10 14:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes of course. Advantages - well, being with a younger woman if you consider it an advantage, and for her, being with someone who's hopefully already well-established and mature. Disadvantages - she's still "growing", and may "grow out of" him in a few years; he may already have kids, and be reluctant to have more, while she would want to start a family eventually. But for the most part, it all depends on the two people involved.
2006-10-10 14:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But the disadvantages are that at 20 most women are too immature. Some are mature enough but what about college and living life? A married woman can hardly sow her oats. I don't think it's a good idea.
2006-10-10 14:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, advantages... shes 20... she has 20 year old friends... disadvantages... she can't go to the bars... 10 years from now she'll be 30...
2006-10-10 14:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 34 and I am 20. It is possible, but just takes alot of patients. 20 years old is still young and even if they are more mature than other people their age, it is still very immature compared to a 36 year old.
2006-10-10 14:44:07 · answer #7 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means no...don't marry her. It will never work!
And BTW, whats her name and number, I'll marry her.
Just being silly..... if you love each other.... then yes marry the girl. Don't be hung up on conventional ways. It's rare when two people find each other and have a perfect relationship... why worry about the age thing. But make sure it's truly love on both parts and not infatuation.... then go for it!
2006-10-10 14:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think love knows no age so yes. but one of the disadvantages is if you want to go drinking she is sill to young to go with you and there is the mattureid level but i dont think those two things should make you give up on something as special as true love
2006-10-10 14:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by aleym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age difference does not matter if the two can connect and common interests. If both of you are mature enough then everything should work out.
2006-10-10 14:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋