2 pairs of friends know each other from very long, they shared a lot of happy moments together: holidays, going out, having fun. Each pair got a child. But, from sometime one of the husbands and the other wife started to have a much more intensive relationship: phone calls, confidences, lunches... For the moment nothing physical had happened but a very strong emotional and spiritual connexion. How do you see their future?
2006-10-10 07:24:18 · 19 answers · asked by Oliver S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like they are on the verge of an affair and they need to be careful about their choices and if they really want to get involved with each other then they need to leave their spouses before something like that happens because a cheater is not a nice thing to be and it would would really hurt the other party friends are good but once you cross that line, well think about it hard ,before you step over it.
2006-10-10 07:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by stormy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was a kid, my aunt & uncle did the same thing.
My aunt got into a relationship with the guy from the other couple.
Her husband and the wife in the other couple found out, and divorced the ones who had done the cheating.
Then the ones that did the divorcing ended up falling in love. They are together still, but the two that were fooling around ended up splitting up.
Get divorces first, then date each other. That's how you know how important it is. When both couples have kids, that is a terribly irresponsible thing to do.
2006-10-10 14:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bleak. Both couples need to examine their existing spousal and family relationships and discover why they feel the need to seek outside affection. A lack of physical activity does not make it any less adulterous.
Contact needs to be severed for the sake of both families. Both couples should also enter into some form of therapy so that trust can be rebuilt and problems recognized. Otherwise, there will be two broken homes and a lot of messed up relationships. Children learn about relationships from their home life...if they grow up in an environment of strife or distrust, it will be more difficult for them to engage in trusting, healthy relationships.
2006-10-10 14:35:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that anyone can see the future, however, once a emotional and spiritual connection has been made, it is hard to break. The individuals involved need to understand why it got to this point and address the issue(s) before it jeopardizes the relationship with their spouse.
2006-10-10 14:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at some point I see at least one of them looking at the ceiling. Spritual connection and emotional connection will drive them to the brink of passion...
2006-10-10 14:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see brokenhearts and families. I see child support and alimony payments. I see lonely weekends without the kid. I see years of therapy for everyone involved. I see anti-depressants...
2006-10-10 14:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. The future holds only pain and suffering for your children and your mates... end it now, before it is too late!
2006-10-10 14:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I foresee a hottub party of swinging and ecstasy in your future...then I see humiliation, disgust and "I wish I didn't do that"s the next day.
2006-10-10 15:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by The Hispanic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see 4 people and children that will be hurt and devastated.
But by all means 'follow your heart' even if that menas destroying everthing.
2006-10-10 14:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disastrous.
2006-10-10 14:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋