hey i need some help i just moved and im having a hard time making friends. there are some but its stil not that great. oh and any help with this one girl would be great too. she is in one of my classes and shes dang good looking and shes so sweet and careing but i dont know what to do
thanks
-steve
2006-10-10 06:59:33 · 7 answers · asked by STEVE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alright, steve. here's the thing...remember that no matter how bad life seems, no matter that you hit rock bottom, you can only go uphill. also, your efforts will heal you faster than inaction. also, about the girl...
i have this great advice for you. depending on which class she's in, get her number through class. ask her if you guys can study together (don't play a fool, though, girls can see right through that). arrange a lunch one day to study for a test or something. this accomplishes two things. it puts you two closer, and also puts the possibility of you two dating into her head. you guys can see if you can stand each other in a public place, and helps to get a yes when asking for a date. then, at a time you feel comfortable, you ask her out to lunch...minus the studying. pay for her meal. then, work your way up to dinner. this should roll smoothely.
2006-10-10 07:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steve,
Anyone who tells you life isn't tough is lying and clearly hasn't experienced much of it. It's always hard making new friends but give things time...don't pressure yourself to be accepted by others right away. When you ease into things, people will open up to you. As for the girl you're interested in...have you spoken to her? Start with a hello and go from there. When you feel comfortable, ask her to go for coffee where you can get to know eachother...but don't rush it. Good luck.
2006-10-10 07:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, life is tough, but all you can do is be yourself so you know your friends like you for you. YOU CAN make more friends by being outgoing and confident, and the same goes for the girl. Just talk to her, and when youre comfortable enough, ask her out!!!! :)
Good luck!!!
2006-10-10 07:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you just need to talk to people in your area. You can wait until they talk to you but that can take forever. Whenever you are new to a certain area make an impression, show them how nice you are, how smart, show them that you are not a quiet or shy person. And maybe your impression may rub off on your crush. If not, well then you could swallow down your nervousness and talk to her. BUT PLEASE!! Come correctly.
2006-10-10 07:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by jrmygray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to the movies with a group of people and then see where it goes from there
2006-10-10 07:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by laurenkw92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking to her,
2006-10-10 07:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and then you die ..
2006-10-10 07:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋