Ok well almost 3 years ago I met my BD.At first I was not feelin him but then eventually he won my heart and I fell in deep wit him.He was so 4 real wit me and took care of me, helped me wit money, got me out of jail, etc, you get the picture.Then last year we started arguing more and more. We split up 4 a minute but we were still doin it. Then I got pregnant. Well during this time his momma got sick and she is in Mexico so he went to see her while I was preg. He neva came back on time to see the baby be born or nothin. By time he got back my baby was 6 months old. He tried me when he 1st got back and I let him hit again. He is back and Lord have mercy I still love him. He says he loves me but he feels like he aint ready to settle down yet. But yet and still he calls when he wants some, but now I don't let him hit no more....we have a beautiful 7 month old baby...why is this dude playing wit my heart, and an even better question, will he change back into my sweet papi again?
2006-10-10 06:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, u are crazy for let him hit again.Let me tell u a little bit of most Mexican men. If he want to go to Mexico you should of told him you were going with him, just to see what he would say. Maybe the reason he really went to Mexico is to see his Wife. Cause I know believe me , that is what my dad was doing to my Mom,my sister's boyfriend is doing the same thing,and I have friends that told my the same thing. I had a friend of mine that told me that most Mexican men are either married or have there girl in Mexico and come here to make some money for the families but the get girlfriends here to have sex cause their girls are to far. You know you shouldn't let anyone treat u like a piece of meat stand up for yourself cause if you don't who will?
2006-10-10 07:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Linda704 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm sorry yet that doesn't sound like 'favourite couple stuff' to me. Its very unfair bringing a infant up in that style of ecosystem. you should place down the regulation. the two he keeps to be and acts like a supportive companion, or he is going and would not come back. I had a mate in the same difficulty, he wa the father of one her toddlers, and that i fought lots together with her attempting to get her to confirm how lots it became screwing up her childrens existence. She ultimately observed him for the actual individual her became and hasnt taken him lower back on the grounds that!! Your the infant's mummy and ought to furnish it the main superb existence possible, and its a no can do in the adventure that your gonna permit that jerk lower back on your existence on each and every occasion he feels like he needs too!!! Im not saying that fights dont take place. My companion and that i've got huge arguments. in no way in front of the youngsters and if he ever walked out on my and our toddlers lifes, then i does not enable him to return lower back! not speaking for days isnt favourite exceptionally while it occurs on an ongoing foundation
2016-11-27 19:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by meske 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He mite, when he's ready to. But YOU need to make sure he's ready to settle down. Yall ghetto..lol That's that ghetto love. Yeah, check him though, if that's ya boy. Then yall supposed to help each other out. But he aint ready to chill out. Then he won't. & you just gonna have to b strong and handle your lil one the best way you can. kno what im sayin? thank you. come again.
2006-10-10 06:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by NVR UNDRESTM8 KARMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey move on your baby is still young and u can find someone that will love the both of you. You are not his pin cushion. Get him for child support and move on.
2006-10-10 06:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by GRISSIOM PURE GENIUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he wont cause now you are a source of responsibility to him. He just trying to get a little from ya and maybe be the daddy to another little one.
2006-10-10 06:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he turning u into a booty call who happens to be his baby mama and thats all its gonna be....at least for right now...its up to u to decide if u cool with that or not...but u cant make somebody be what u want them to be or do what u want them to do
2006-10-10 07:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by MsNic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid is as stupid does.
You is 'ho and nuttin' more.
2006-10-10 06:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋